# ⏳ Delayed ejaculation **URL:** https://community.mymojo.com/c/delayed-ejaculation/47.md [Latest](https://community.mymojo.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://community.mymojo.com/categories.md) · [Tags](https://community.mymojo.com/tags.md) --- ## [About the ⏳ Delayed ejaculation category](https://community.mymojo.com/t/about-the-delayed-ejaculation-category/5608)
**Author:** [@jb-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/jb-mojo)\ **Replies:** 0
--- ## [Delaying ejaculation success?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/delaying-ejaculation-success/15830)
**Author:** [@spontaneous-maroon-cardinal](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spontaneous-maroon-cardinal)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [July 12, 2026, 2:11pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/delaying-ejaculation-success/15830 "2026-07-12T14:11:44Z")
What techniques have you found the most effective and useful for delaying ejaculation? Just wondering which activities to focus on the most on the Mojo app --- ## [Overcoming delayed ejaculation](https://community.mymojo.com/t/overcoming-delayed-ejaculation/14981)
**Author:** [@wilful-scarlet-skunk](https://community.mymojo.com/u/wilful-scarlet-skunk)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [May 18, 2026, 3:10pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/overcoming-delayed-ejaculation/14981 "2026-05-18T15:10:33Z")
Guys, has anyone experience and gotten over delayed ejaculation? I’ve gotten over my ED issues and i can stay hard. But now I seem to last forever and struggle to cum when I’m with someone. Any advice? --- ## [No sensation during sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/no-sensation-during-sex/14931)
**Author:** [@glorious-blush-tiglon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/glorious-blush-tiglon)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [March 23, 2026, 3:52pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/no-sensation-during-sex/14931 "2026-03-23T15:52:12Z")
I can get erections but I lose them once I’m in the position because I don’t feel any sensation. Once we go back to kissing and cuddling I get it back, but I think it’s because I flex my pelvic floor everytime I masturba… --- ## [Delayed Ejaculation -Help Needed](https://community.mymojo.com/t/delayed-ejaculation-help-needed/14734)
**Author:** [@modern-purple-swordfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/modern-purple-swordfish)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [March 2, 2026, 3:48pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/delayed-ejaculation-help-needed/14734 "2026-03-02T15:48:38Z")
I’m very attracted to my partner but during sex, it’s hard for me to finish. When I was single ofc I watched porn and I masterbated, it’s getting hard for me to finish. I can do it myself but I can’t do it during… I rea… --- ## [Issues not ejaculating with new partner](https://community.mymojo.com/t/issues-not-ejaculating-with-new-partner/13061)
**Author:** [@convenient-brown-impala](https://community.mymojo.com/u/convenient-brown-impala)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [January 3, 2026, 10:53pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/issues-not-ejaculating-with-new-partner/13061 "2026-01-03T22:53:08Z")
Hi, I just joined the site today. My situation is that I have come out of a 26 year marriage (I am 66 years of age). My new partner and I have been attempting sex for around a month andf I find I have no trouble gettin… --- ## [Not giving your partner what she wants](https://community.mymojo.com/t/not-giving-your-partner-what-she-wants/12848)
**Author:** [@awake-magenta-whale](https://community.mymojo.com/u/awake-magenta-whale)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [December 17, 2025, 9:37am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/not-giving-your-partner-what-she-wants/12848 "2025-12-17T09:37:44Z")
For me I struggle to ejaculate, my new partner gets off majorly when I cum inside her, for me this is hard and we have cheated the system with wanking etc but I would like it to be “normally” achieved as I know that woul… --- ## [Porn free for a month and noticed a difference](https://community.mymojo.com/t/porn-free-for-a-month-and-noticed-a-difference/12669)
**Author:** [@selective-ivory-eel](https://community.mymojo.com/u/selective-ivory-eel)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [December 5, 2025, 11:36pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/porn-free-for-a-month-and-noticed-a-difference/12669 "2025-12-05T23:36:18Z")
Hello all, bit weird sharing something so personal on here but here goes.. 39, straight male. Separated from wife for over a year (she became a lesbian!!). Sexless marriage for many years, young children etc make things … --- ## [Death grip syndrome help!](https://community.mymojo.com/t/death-grip-syndrome-help/12015)
**Author:** [@casual-tomato-earthworm](https://community.mymojo.com/u/casual-tomato-earthworm)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [November 6, 2025, 11:09am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/death-grip-syndrome-help/12015 "2025-11-06T11:09:36Z")
Does anyone know how to resolve death grip syndrome? I find it impossible with my girlfriend and I’m at the end of my rope! :cry: --- ## [How to reduce need for visual stimulation provided by porn](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-to-reduce-need-for-visual-stimulation-provided-by-porn/12007)
**Author:** [@graceful-tan-earthworm](https://community.mymojo.com/u/graceful-tan-earthworm)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [November 5, 2025, 12:22am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-to-reduce-need-for-visual-stimulation-provided-by-porn/12007 "2025-11-05T00:22:43Z")
TL:DR - Years of porn and masturbation have made me reliant on visual stimulation in order to climax. How can I rewire my brain? More: I (58M) have a delicious new sex partner after nearly five years alone. During t… --- ## [What to do about the fact that I've mostly watched feet, facesitting and giantess porn for most of life](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-to-do-about-the-fact-that-ive-mostly-watched-feet-facesitting-and-giantess-porn-for-most-of-life/11647)
**Author:** [@extra-maroon-turkey](https://community.mymojo.com/u/extra-maroon-turkey)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2025, 6:05am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-to-do-about-the-fact-that-ive-mostly-watched-feet-facesitting-and-giantess-porn-for-most-of-life/11647 "2025-10-16T06:05:46Z")
I’ve only really watched feet, facesitting, and giantess pornography most of my life. I’ve had some trouble with erection issues sometimes, when it comes to regular intercourse. Could it be because I’ve only watched regu… --- ## [Can I get over 20 years of rejection with my wife?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-i-get-over-20-years-of-rejection-with-my-wife/11563)
**Author:** [@uninterested-aquamarine-unicorn](https://community.mymojo.com/u/uninterested-aquamarine-unicorn)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [October 8, 2025, 10:39pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-i-get-over-20-years-of-rejection-with-my-wife/11563 "2025-10-08T22:39:05Z")
would love to hear People’s thoughts on this. I’ve been married 22 years and for the first 20 years my wife simply had no interest in sex. She pretty systematically rejected me and I relied on porn and trained myself to… --- ## [Trouble reaching orgasm](https://community.mymojo.com/t/trouble-reaching-orgasm/11492)
**Author:** [@spectacular-crimson-catshark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spectacular-crimson-catshark)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [September 26, 2025, 7:23am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/trouble-reaching-orgasm/11492 "2025-09-26T07:23:58Z")
For the better part of my adult life, I’ve struggled with performance anxiety, and as of late it’s compounded by issues reaching orgasm. I’ve used the pills to assist with the ED, but it seems I get so focused on the pe… --- ## [Will this issue ever go away?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/will-this-issue-ever-go-away/11457)
**Author:** [@diplomatic-apricot-sturgeon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/diplomatic-apricot-sturgeon)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 21, 2025, 3:38am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/will-this-issue-ever-go-away/11457 "2025-09-21T03:38:46Z")
I have had issues with delayed or no ejaculation with a partner for years. I can get hard, but I can’t seem to finish. I get in my head that I have been going for too long, or that my partner isn’t enjoying it and the lo… --- ## [PED/deathgrip breakthrough](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ped-deathgrip-breakthrough/11267)
**Author:** [@superb-fuchsia-asp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/superb-fuchsia-asp)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 2, 2025, 2:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ped-deathgrip-breakthrough/11267 "2025-09-02T14:34:56Z")
I’ve been making strides in getting over PED lately. We fooled around last night. No sex, but heavy foreplay and we both have each other extended oral… I never got really hard tho. I got her off several times with my mo… --- ## [Losing it mid-sex and not finishing?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-it-mid-sex-and-not-finishing/11141)
**Author:** [@mute-azure-jaguar](https://community.mymojo.com/u/mute-azure-jaguar)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [August 23, 2025, 2:44am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-it-mid-sex-and-not-finishing/11141 "2025-08-23T02:44:39Z")
I am not sure if this is falling under erection issues or delayed ejaculation so I’ll just post it here. Generally, I am able to get and stay hard right up until it’s time to get it in. Usually, I’m able to do a couple p… --- ## [Going for round 2](https://community.mymojo.com/t/going-for-round-2/11069)
**Author:** [@anon16083776](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon16083776)\ **Replies:** 7\ **Last updated:** [August 20, 2025, 8:49am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/going-for-round-2/11069 "2025-08-20T08:49:23Z")
How can I prep myself for the second round cus like I went soft immediately after cumming the first time and lowky struggled to get second wind when she got on top of me any advice? --- ## [Can’t cum with sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-t-cum-with-sex/10843)
**Author:** [@civic-blue-catshark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/civic-blue-catshark)\ **Replies:** 11\ **Last updated:** [August 11, 2025, 1:44am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-t-cum-with-sex/10843 "2025-08-11T01:44:25Z")
I’ve always had trouble finishing during sex. When I masturbate, it’s not an issue, but with sex it’s been a problem for most of my life, so I’ve ended up faking it most of the time. Honestly, probably 95% of the time I … --- ## [I can't ejaculate when having sex with partner](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-cant-ejaculate-when-having-sex-with-partner/10694)
**Author:** [@reduced-ivory-urial](https://community.mymojo.com/u/reduced-ivory-urial)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [August 2, 2025, 9:17pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-cant-ejaculate-when-having-sex-with-partner/10694 "2025-08-02T21:17:05Z")
I can’t ejaculate when having sex with partner the majority of the times. Ive been able to ejaculate once when we’ve had sex. Its now got to the point where we’ve currently taken a break from things as she feels like I… --- ## [New issue, need advice](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-issue-need-advice/10688)
**Author:** [@colorful-azure-whippet](https://community.mymojo.com/u/colorful-azure-whippet)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [July 31, 2025, 9:24pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-issue-need-advice/10688 "2025-07-31T21:24:52Z")
I used to worry about getting and staying hard, now, I get so hard I can get off. Any advice on how to help? --- ## [Can cum to porn but not sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-cum-to-porn-but-not-sex/10668)
**Author:** [@ethical-bronze-parrotfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/ethical-bronze-parrotfish)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [July 30, 2025, 9:55am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-cum-to-porn-but-not-sex/10668 "2025-07-30T09:55:25Z")
Been with my lovely girlfriend for about a year now, semi frequent sex happens and I can get hard tho not sure if it’s fully 100% but cannot cum at all and can last hours. I can cum tho to porn. This is an issue that nee… --- ## [I can’t cum please](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-can-t-cum-please/10410)
**Author:** [@entitled-apricot-pinniped](https://community.mymojo.com/u/entitled-apricot-pinniped)\ **Replies:** 7\ **Last updated:** [July 28, 2025, 4:01pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-can-t-cum-please/10410 "2025-07-28T16:01:09Z")
Please help I can’t cum during sex lol I am really attracted to my partner but i just hit a mental wall --- ## [Trying to conceieve](https://community.mymojo.com/t/trying-to-conceieve/9144)
**Author:** [@zippy-turquoise-lynx](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zippy-turquoise-lynx)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [July 21, 2025, 9:54pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/trying-to-conceieve/9144 "2025-07-21T21:54:26Z")
I’m having difficulty climaxing and my partner and I are trying to have a kid. I have no issues when I masturbate. It’s not like I never climax with my partner. We do have a lot of sex though and I’ve found when we are a… --- ## [Issues ejaculating](https://community.mymojo.com/t/issues-ejaculating/10192)
**Author:** [@elated-maroon-crow](https://community.mymojo.com/u/elated-maroon-crow)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [July 21, 2025, 7:27pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/issues-ejaculating/10192 "2025-07-21T19:27:30Z")
Hi guys! For a while I’ve had issues in ejaculating with casual partners. At home- when watching porn I find I can ejaculate very easily but when with casual partners I struggle to cum at all. Any tips on how to overcom… --- ## [I can’t cum during sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-can-t-cum-during-sex/10411)
**Author:** [@entitled-apricot-pinniped](https://community.mymojo.com/u/entitled-apricot-pinniped)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [July 21, 2025, 6:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-can-t-cum-during-sex/10411 "2025-07-21T18:51:59Z")
Help I can’t cum during sex…any advice? --- ## [Can’t finish without tightening legs](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-t-finish-without-tightening-legs/9620)
**Author:** [@formal-salmon-mink](https://community.mymojo.com/u/formal-salmon-mink)\ **Replies:** 9\ **Last updated:** [July 12, 2025, 3:07pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-t-finish-without-tightening-legs/9620 "2025-07-12T15:07:32Z")
In the past, I had the strangest happening. I was only able to finish when I tightened and extended my legs muscles as hard as I could. Has anyone else had this before? --- ## [Anorgasmia?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/anorgasmia/9301)
**Author:** [@definite-blue-mollusk](https://community.mymojo.com/u/definite-blue-mollusk)\ **Replies:** 6\ **Last updated:** [July 11, 2025, 10:57pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/anorgasmia/9301 "2025-07-11T22:57:05Z")
Can anyone who has had anorgasmia and solved it help me? I ejaculate while masturbating but I have never ejaculated while having sex --- ## [I piss instead of cum](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-piss-instead-of-cum/9871)
**Author:** [@elated-crimson-python](https://community.mymojo.com/u/elated-crimson-python)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [July 10, 2025, 6:10am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-piss-instead-of-cum/9871 "2025-07-10T06:10:02Z")
I always last wayyy too long when having sex. Sometimes go for like 2hrs+ without orgasming and just give up and stop. Im not sure if there is a mental block because one time I got really nervous and pissed bc i thought … --- ## [Pains with your body](https://community.mymojo.com/t/pains-with-your-body/9819)
**Author:** [@particular-amaranth-squirrel](https://community.mymojo.com/u/particular-amaranth-squirrel)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [July 10, 2025, 2:08am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/pains-with-your-body/9819 "2025-07-10T02:08:51Z")
Has anyone ever been having good sex, and it feels good and then you get distracted by a physical pain that your feeling and then you get soft and can’t cum or come to the motivation to finish my partner? --- ## [No Cumming at the End](https://community.mymojo.com/t/no-cumming-at-the-end/9619)
**Author:** [@entitled-chocolate-bass](https://community.mymojo.com/u/entitled-chocolate-bass)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [July 6, 2025, 2:05pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/no-cumming-at-the-end/9619 "2025-07-06T14:05:47Z")
I wanted to ask about this. Recently, my gf and I were having sex, and it was actually pretty good. I was sufficiently hard and she was really enjoying herself. one or two times I felt like I was getting close to cumm… [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/c/delayed-ejaculation/47.md?page=1)