# šŸŒ‹ Early climax **URL:** https://community.mymojo.com/c/early-climax/12.md [Latest](https://community.mymojo.com/latest.md) Ā· [Categories](https://community.mymojo.com/categories.md) Ā· [Tags](https://community.mymojo.com/tags.md) --- ## [Ups and downs](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ups-and-downs/15385)
**Author:** [@continued-coral-owl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/continued-coral-owl)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [June 5, 2026, 12:11am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ups-and-downs/15385 "2026-06-05T00:11:08Z")
Hey all, I have been having this weird thing happen to me recently, and wondered whether anyone else had been in this position. Around three months ago, I genuinely felt like I had ā€˜solvedā€™ the issues that led to me doā€¦ --- ## [31M ā€” PE since my early 20s, now can't get hard easily. Anyone else?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/31m-pe-since-my-early-20s-now-cant-get-hard-easily-anyone-else/14984)
**Author:** [@capable-lime-rattlesnake](https://community.mymojo.com/u/capable-lime-rattlesnake)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 14, 2026, 4:20am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/31m-pe-since-my-early-20s-now-cant-get-hard-easily-anyone-else/14984 "2026-04-14T04:20:32Z")
College masturbation habit was fast and compulsive ā€” multiple times per session for years. Didnā€™t realize the damage until my first sexual experiences around 23-24, when I was finishing in under 30 seconds. Used desensitā€¦ --- ## [Low confidence due to P.E](https://community.mymojo.com/t/low-confidence-due-to-p-e/14974)
**Author:** [@troubled-magenta-buzzard](https://community.mymojo.com/u/troubled-magenta-buzzard)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 2, 2026, 4:15am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/low-confidence-due-to-p-e/14974 "2026-04-02T04:15:33Z")
So Iā€™ve always struggled with P.E, with masturbating and sex. It really affects my confidence and just makes me feel shit about my abilities. I havenā€™t had good sex since I left my ex. Since then Iā€™ve either been too druā€¦ --- ## [Came super early again](https://community.mymojo.com/t/came-super-early-again/14180)
**Author:** [@steady-green-newt](https://community.mymojo.com/u/steady-green-newt)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [February 13, 2026, 11:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/came-super-early-again/14180 "2026-02-13T11:54:40Z")
Sup Iā€™m a male 22. Last night I had real sex with someone for the first time since my ex girlfriend of 2 years (I also experienced these issues with her btw). This chick is an absolute 10/10 and I was feeling the pressurā€¦ --- ## [I cant cum](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-cant-cum/14114)
**Author:** [@subsequent-amethyst-giraffe](https://community.mymojo.com/u/subsequent-amethyst-giraffe)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [January 27, 2026, 4:48pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-cant-cum/14114 "2026-01-27T16:48:07Z")
i am suggle too cum --- ## [Kegals/reverse kegals for PE](https://community.mymojo.com/t/kegals-reverse-kegals-for-pe/13772)
**Author:** [@cultural-lavender-bear](https://community.mymojo.com/u/cultural-lavender-bear)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [January 18, 2026, 10:10pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/kegals-reverse-kegals-for-pe/13772 "2026-01-18T22:10:24Z")
How are people with PE finding kegals or reverse kegals are helping if at all with PE and physically what do you do during sex via kegals/reverse to help? Kegals currently seem to be highlighted as negative but struggleā€¦ --- ## [Why do I cum fast](https://community.mymojo.com/t/why-do-i-cum-fast/13828)
**Author:** [@ideal-salmon-tapir](https://community.mymojo.com/u/ideal-salmon-tapir)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [January 18, 2026, 5:02am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/why-do-i-cum-fast/13828 "2026-01-18T05:02:24Z")
Can anyone tell me how to last longer and anything that will help cheers and thank you --- ## [Success overcoming PE](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-overcoming-pe/11559)
**Author:** [@clear-coffee-owl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/clear-coffee-owl)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [January 16, 2026, 3:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-overcoming-pe/11559 "2026-01-16T15:51:08Z")
Hey folks! I figured Iā€™d share some success. So, Iā€™ve been dealing with stress-related PE for a year or so. For context, Iā€™m a middle-aged guy about to turn 40 this year, and my wife and I have been together for almost 2ā€¦ --- ## [Has anyone had success with kegels?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/has-anyone-had-success-with-kegels/13444)
**Author:** [@human-plum-aphid](https://community.mymojo.com/u/human-plum-aphid)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [January 15, 2026, 6:46am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/has-anyone-had-success-with-kegels/13444 "2026-01-15T06:46:52Z")
Hi, been looking at lots of different options says to hep my situation, has anyone had any success with dr kegels as I have read lots of really good things about them? --- ## [Feels like I canā€™t be in a state of erection where Iā€™m not actively building to climax](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feels-like-i-can-t-be-in-a-state-of-erection-where-i-m-not-actively-building-to-climax/13422)
**Author:** [@easy-peach-flamingo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/easy-peach-flamingo)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [January 15, 2026, 4:52am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feels-like-i-can-t-be-in-a-state-of-erection-where-i-m-not-actively-building-to-climax/13422 "2026-01-15T04:52:23Z")
When in sex I can only last around 10-15 seconds, I feel like when erect and having sex my body is rushing to climax almost instantly --- ## [End up In my feelings](https://community.mymojo.com/t/end-up-in-my-feelings/12768)
**Author:** [@stable-peach-thrush](https://community.mymojo.com/u/stable-peach-thrush)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [December 29, 2025, 11:37pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/end-up-in-my-feelings/12768 "2025-12-29T23:37:31Z")
I want sex or a form of sex all time but hardly ever get anything. She says she wants to want to, but when it comes down to it she just donā€™t feel like itā€¦ the other night we did but I got to rubbing her back and rubbingā€¦ --- ## [Considering Hypnotherapy](https://community.mymojo.com/t/considering-hypnotherapy/13220)
**Author:** [@surrounding-amethyst-sloth](https://community.mymojo.com/u/surrounding-amethyst-sloth)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [December 28, 2025, 8:58pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/considering-hypnotherapy/13220 "2025-12-28T20:58:21Z")
I am genuinely considering hypnotherapy sessions to address the issue of PD. Has anyone done this or considered it? I welcome any discussion --- ## [Early climax as a learned behavior](https://community.mymojo.com/t/early-climax-as-a-learned-behavior/12508)
**Author:** [@nervous-amaranth-lizard](https://community.mymojo.com/u/nervous-amaranth-lizard)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [December 5, 2025, 10:26am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/early-climax-as-a-learned-behavior/12508 "2025-12-05T10:26:08Z")
I think my issue is that ive had PE for long enough that it became a learned behavior (ie my body just ejaculates early because this is how its been operating for a few years now). Ive been on here for a while and a lot ā€¦ --- ## [Thought I was making progress](https://community.mymojo.com/t/thought-i-was-making-progress/12255)
**Author:** [@comparative-maroon-gull](https://community.mymojo.com/u/comparative-maroon-gull)\ **Replies:** 9\ **Last updated:** [December 4, 2025, 9:47am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/thought-i-was-making-progress/12255 "2025-12-04T09:47:30Z")
Iā€™m 30 and have struggled with premature ejaculation my entire adult life. Iā€™ve been using Mojo for about two months and thought I was making progress.. the breathwork and edging exercises were really making me feel likeā€¦ --- ## [PE Help and results](https://community.mymojo.com/t/pe-help-and-results/11677)
**Author:** [@anon93709983](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon93709983)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [November 20, 2025, 3:44pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/pe-help-and-results/11677 "2025-11-20T15:44:45Z")
Has anyone had success with this app helping with PE? I feel like I havenā€™t learned much in this area. Thanks! --- ## [Ejaculating straight away](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ejaculating-straight-away/11807)
**Author:** [@managerial-brown-mackerel](https://community.mymojo.com/u/managerial-brown-mackerel)\ **Replies:** 7\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2025, 10:12pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ejaculating-straight-away/11807 "2025-10-29T22:12:11Z")
Iā€™ve been in a long term relationship and the whole time Iā€™ve pretty much cum straight away (sometimes even during foreplay). Itā€™s not like this during masterbation. Iā€™m unsure if anyone has any tips or tricks to fix it.ā€¦ --- ## [First time going almost 20 minsšŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļø](https://community.mymojo.com/t/first-time-going-almost-20-mins/11385)
**Author:** [@uniform-lavender-gibbon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/uniform-lavender-gibbon)\ **Replies:** 15\ **Last updated:** [October 3, 2025, 9:00am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/first-time-going-almost-20-mins/11385 "2025-10-03T09:00:10Z")
TLDR: Stop watching porn, Use the stop start technique Buy a realistic toy Exercise, yoga, and journaling For me, porn use and constant overstimulation for decades was definitely was definitely the cause of my PE. Hā€¦ --- ## [Tips to last longer?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tips-to-last-longer/11494)
**Author:** [@wispy-turquoise-aphid](https://community.mymojo.com/u/wispy-turquoise-aphid)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 26, 2025, 7:59am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tips-to-last-longer/11494 "2025-09-26T07:59:32Z")
been feeling pretty bad bc I donā€™t last long enough usually and then donā€™t want to have penetrative sex because im scared of cumming too fast and being embarrassed. Iā€™m 22, uncircumcised. Anyone have tips? --- ## [What do you use the erotic stories for?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-use-the-erotic-stories-for/11390)
**Author:** [@curly-moccasin-parrotfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/curly-moccasin-parrotfish)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [September 20, 2025, 5:24am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-use-the-erotic-stories-for/11390 "2025-09-20T05:24:31Z")
Just curious since itā€™s basically also a form of porn. Is it rewiring you so you donā€™t need to see the visuals to get turned on? Are you supposed to finish to them? How do you use them? --- ## [Recent experience after using app for a few months](https://community.mymojo.com/t/recent-experience-after-using-app-for-a-few-months/11435)
**Author:** [@marked-cyan-rook](https://community.mymojo.com/u/marked-cyan-rook)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [September 18, 2025, 11:04am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/recent-experience-after-using-app-for-a-few-months/11435 "2025-09-18T11:04:08Z")
Iv been using this app for a while and been worried about cumming too early for a long time. After all the exercises iv found breathwork and stop starteyhid have been the most effective for me. I have finally been able tā€¦ --- ## [Can PE actually be controlled or cured](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-pe-actually-be-controlled-or-cured/11333)
**Author:** [@essential-peach-bass](https://community.mymojo.com/u/essential-peach-bass)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [September 13, 2025, 8:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-pe-actually-be-controlled-or-cured/11333 "2025-09-13T20:51:53Z")
Iā€™ve visited 10-15 different doctors and nothing seems to help me, Iā€™ve had this issue ever since I can remember. Its most likely a psychological problem Has this app helped anyone with premature ejaculation?(PE) is it ā€¦ --- ## [Itā€™s Finally Working šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø](https://community.mymojo.com/t/it-s-finally-working/11022)
**Author:** [@uniform-lavender-gibbon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/uniform-lavender-gibbon)\ **Replies:** 7\ **Last updated:** [September 13, 2025, 11:11am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/it-s-finally-working/11022 "2025-09-13T11:11:00Z")
From the age of 8, Iā€™ve been addicted to porn. This led to PE issues with me not able to hold for longer than 30 secs at my worst, in combination with different culminations of stress. The 10 min exercise is helping me ā€¦ --- ## [Excelling when solo but struggling with partnered sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/excelling-when-solo-but-struggling-with-partnered-sex/11136)
**Author:** [@cautious-black-platypus](https://community.mymojo.com/u/cautious-black-platypus)\ **Replies:** 12\ **Last updated:** [September 12, 2025, 1:43pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/excelling-when-solo-but-struggling-with-partnered-sex/11136 "2025-09-12T13:43:02Z")
Iā€™ve had issues with PE, after months of breath work exercises I feel in complete control when masturbating and have even had several non-ejaculation orgasms. However when Iā€™m having sex with a partner I canā€™t control myā€¦ --- ## [Coming way too early](https://community.mymojo.com/t/coming-way-too-early/9477)
**Author:** [@racial-yellow-wildfowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/racial-yellow-wildfowl)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [September 11, 2025, 3:45pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/coming-way-too-early/9477 "2025-09-11T15:45:26Z")
Man I am struggling. When my partner and I got together I could go for ages, no issues. But now Iā€™m so in my head, I can feel my body dysregulate and I am having to fight to not cum almost immediately. Itā€™s definitely haā€¦ --- ## [Getting hard before intercourse](https://community.mymojo.com/t/getting-hard-before-intercourse/11263)
**Author:** [@tart-crimson-armadillo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/tart-crimson-armadillo)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [September 3, 2025, 5:19pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/getting-hard-before-intercourse/11263 "2025-09-03T17:19:04Z")
Having no issues with getting hard in foreplay, just as soon as I go for intercourse with my partner I seem to lose my boner. Itā€™s like as soon as the foreplay stops my head just canā€™t get out of it. Itā€™ll only work afteā€¦ --- ## [Partner on SSRI and I canā€™t last long!šŸ„²](https://community.mymojo.com/t/partner-on-ssri-and-i-can-t-last-long/11266)
**Author:** [@loyal-teal-ladybug](https://community.mymojo.com/u/loyal-teal-ladybug)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 2, 2025, 1:30pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/partner-on-ssri-and-i-can-t-last-long/11266 "2025-09-02T13:30:57Z")
Hi all, first time posting here. To summarise, I struggle with premature ejaculation - now itā€™s not awful, sometimes I can last a while but the majority of the time I have to stop and start constantly. However, my boyfriā€¦ --- ## [Cumming too quick](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cumming-too-quick/11262)
**Author:** [@rising-teal-boar](https://community.mymojo.com/u/rising-teal-boar)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 1, 2025, 9:31pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cumming-too-quick/11262 "2025-09-01T21:31:21Z")
I quite often find myself about to cum after literally about 10 strokes, I do stop which sorts it out but happens a few times in 1 session. How can I stop this from happening so much? --- ## [Lasting longer for PE - Controlling high arousal](https://community.mymojo.com/t/lasting-longer-for-pe-controlling-high-arousal/11015)
**Author:** [@nutritious-ivory-pony](https://community.mymojo.com/u/nutritious-ivory-pony)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [August 14, 2025, 9:24am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/lasting-longer-for-pe-controlling-high-arousal/11015 "2025-08-14T09:24:58Z")
This training is for staying in control in 10 min high-arousal arousal. Best is to combine this with the previous post on lasting longer. Assumption you can only last ~40 seconds at high arousal right now, weā€™ll scale tā€¦ --- ## [Lasting longer for PE - 10 min goal](https://community.mymojo.com/t/lasting-longer-for-pe-10-min-goal/11014)
**Author:** [@nutritious-ivory-pony](https://community.mymojo.com/u/nutritious-ivory-pony)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [August 14, 2025, 9:15am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/lasting-longer-for-pe-10-min-goal/11014 "2025-08-14T09:15:51Z")
This training is for lasting longer before getting aroused. I will post another one for staying in control after being aroused. Core Idea Instead of letting arousal spike early and then trying to save yourself, youā€™ll ā€¦ --- ## [Any tips for lasting longer?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/any-tips-for-lasting-longer/9333)
**Author:** [@governing-blue-warbler](https://community.mymojo.com/u/governing-blue-warbler)\ **Replies:** 6\ **Last updated:** [August 14, 2025, 1:52am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/any-tips-for-lasting-longer/9333 "2025-08-14T01:52:33Z")
Iā€™m sure others deal with this as well, but it is very frustrating. I met a girl who is wayyy out of my league and Iā€™m very attracted to her, to the point where I canā€™t control myself at all. We havenā€™t had sex yet, but ā€¦ [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/c/early-climax/12.md?page=1)