# šŸ† Erection issues **URL:** https://community.mymojo.com/c/erection-issues/11.md [Latest](https://community.mymojo.com/latest.md) Ā· [Categories](https://community.mymojo.com/categories.md) Ā· [Tags](https://community.mymojo.com/tags.md) --- ## [šŸšØ New post: Erectile Dysfunction in your 30s](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-post-erectile-dysfunction-in-your-30s/2859)
**Author:** [@static-tan-wombat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/static-tan-wombat)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 25, 2022, 4:58pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-post-erectile-dysfunction-in-your-30s/2859 "2022-04-25T16:58:45Z")
We spoke with our Mojo experts to find out: Can you have ED at 30? How common is erectile dysfunction in your 30s? Signs of erectile dysfunction in your 30s Causes of erectile dysfunction in your 30s Sudden erectile dyā€¦ --- ## [šŸšØ New blog post: Erectile dysfunction 101](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-blog-post-erectile-dysfunction-101/2526)
**Author:** [@static-tan-wombat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/static-tan-wombat)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 30, 2021, 11:32am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-blog-post-erectile-dysfunction-101/2526 "2021-09-30T11:32:07Z")
Mojo has a bunch of blog posts covering all things ED. Begin with our ā€˜erectile dysfunction 101ā€™ piece. If your erections have become unpredictable, youā€™re bound to have a lot of questions. This post is a great place tā€¦ --- ## [Phycological sex anxiety](https://community.mymojo.com/t/phycological-sex-anxiety/16511)
**Author:** [@bright-blue-cat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/bright-blue-cat)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 3, 2026, 8:07pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/phycological-sex-anxiety/16511 "2026-11-03T20:07:10Z")
25M had phychological ED for a while. I know itā€™s all in my head but it just feels like it gets worse whenever sex comes closer. Like I start feeling confident but then the closer it comes to having sex the more pressureā€¦ --- ## [Foreskin issues causing less harder erections](https://community.mymojo.com/t/foreskin-issues-causing-less-harder-erections/7669)
**Author:** [@striking-amethyst-bat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/striking-amethyst-bat)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [November 3, 2026, 1:08pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/foreskin-issues-causing-less-harder-erections/7669 "2026-11-03T13:08:10Z")
I just wanted to know if anyone else is facing a similar issue to me. I have foreskin that covers my entire penis, and I am unable to retract it. My way of masturbation has also become different due to this and I do not ā€¦ --- ## [I have a very specific situation, need all the help I can get](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-very-specific-situation-need-all-the-help-i-can-get/16471)
**Author:** [@specific-olive-sparrow](https://community.mymojo.com/u/specific-olive-sparrow)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [November 2, 2026, 10:01pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-very-specific-situation-need-all-the-help-i-can-get/16471 "2026-11-02T22:01:52Z")
So, like most of us here, I have pretty bad sexual performance anxiety, now itā€™s been around for 10 years (Iā€™m 29) and itā€™s followed me everywhere I go, Iā€™ll note that Iā€™ve been watching porn daily as well for about 15 yā€¦ --- ## [Complete waste of time](https://community.mymojo.com/t/complete-waste-of-time/16474)
**Author:** [@fantastic-azure-crayfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/fantastic-azure-crayfish)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2026, 10:00pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/complete-waste-of-time/16474 "2026-10-31T22:00:49Z")
So Iā€™ve complete the course, carried out all the exercises and even with a taldalfil still lost my erection are point of penetration- what the fuck wrong with me --- ## [GLP 1 weight loss and erection issues](https://community.mymojo.com/t/glp-1-weight-loss-and-erection-issues/16487)
**Author:** [@capable-olive-takin](https://community.mymojo.com/u/capable-olive-takin)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2026, 7:35pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/glp-1-weight-loss-and-erection-issues/16487 "2026-10-29T19:35:22Z")
Has anyone else had issues losing a substantial amountweight with or withouta glp 1 and it affecting their erection? --- ## [Soft During Masterbation](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-during-masterbation/16426)
**Author:** [@abstract-silver-bass](https://community.mymojo.com/u/abstract-silver-bass)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 1:40pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-during-masterbation/16426 "2026-10-16T13:40:46Z")
After getting soft during sex for the first time I got worried I was broken and I tried testing while masturbating and now I canā€™t even get hard at home. Has anyone overcome this or had similar experience --- ## [Feeling numbness](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feeling-numbness/15820)
**Author:** [@digital-copper-giraffe](https://community.mymojo.com/u/digital-copper-giraffe)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2026, 11:17am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feeling-numbness/15820 "2026-10-15T11:17:18Z")
When getting intimate with female partners, sometimes I just feel numb, like thereā€™s no control, I canā€™t feel my penis or stimulate it enough to get hard, even if she helps with hand or mouth. Then the next day, I can eaā€¦ --- ## [The relationship side of it](https://community.mymojo.com/t/the-relationship-side-of-it/16422)
**Author:** [@sunny-bronze-koi](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sunny-bronze-koi)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2026, 10:30am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/the-relationship-side-of-it/16422 "2026-10-15T10:30:54Z")
I canā€™t stay hard all the time. It comes and goes. Sometimes everythingā€™s fine and sometimes itā€™s a disaster. Iā€™m working on it, clearly. But how do you deal with the relationship side of things? I feel like my gf is goiā€¦ --- ## [Feeling like Iā€™m letting my girlfriend down :(](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feeling-like-i-m-letting-my-girlfriend-down/16173)
**Author:** [@linear-violet-bird](https://community.mymojo.com/u/linear-violet-bird)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [August 11, 2026, 12:19pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feeling-like-i-m-letting-my-girlfriend-down/16173 "2026-08-11T12:19:42Z")
I really struggle with this feeling of upsetting my partner and letting her down. I feel like a failure, she says sheā€™s frustrated with it all and yet she wants to stay with me because she loves me. I want to fix this foā€¦ --- ## [Erection help: Sedgia Rings](https://community.mymojo.com/t/erection-help-sedgia-rings/16076)
**Author:** [@living-pink-gamefowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/living-pink-gamefowl)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [July 25, 2026, 11:14am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/erection-help-sedgia-rings/16076 "2026-07-25T11:14:33Z")
Hello :waving\_hand:. Has anyone here had any experience using Sedgeia rings? Iā€™m trying and looking into different solutions at the moment and this particular ring comes up a lot. --- ## [Staying hard when masturbating is now a challenge](https://community.mymojo.com/t/staying-hard-when-masturbating-is-now-a-challenge/16049)
**Author:** [@select-turquoise-cephalopod](https://community.mymojo.com/u/select-turquoise-cephalopod)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [July 24, 2026, 11:49am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/staying-hard-when-masturbating-is-now-a-challenge/16049 "2026-07-24T11:49:56Z")
Iā€™m hoping thereā€™s someone here whoā€™s been in the same boat as I am and can offer advice or give me some kind of hopeā€¦ Im a 30 yr old single male who doesnā€™t have a partner, and sex is quite rare for me. Iā€™ve been usingā€¦ --- ## [ADHD, sex and distractions](https://community.mymojo.com/t/adhd-sex-and-distractions/15952)
**Author:** [@past-lavender-antelope](https://community.mymojo.com/u/past-lavender-antelope)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [July 19, 2026, 10:43pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/adhd-sex-and-distractions/15952 "2026-07-19T22:43:10Z")
Iā€™m just beginning to explore ADHDā€™s role in issues around sex. I noticed the other day, I had trouble getting going because my attention was hijacked by my dogs making noise and wandering around the room. I had to kick ā€¦ --- ## [Anxiety is torture!](https://community.mymojo.com/t/anxiety-is-torture/15638)
**Author:** [@continuing-indigo-silkworm](https://community.mymojo.com/u/continuing-indigo-silkworm)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [June 28, 2026, 9:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/anxiety-is-torture/15638 "2026-06-28T21:04:33Z")
Been with my partner for fair few years and weā€™ve both had ED issues at times. We both manage to work through but Iā€™m struggling at the minute to feel calm when we start having sex. I focus so much on my own erection thaā€¦ --- ## [Erection issue with first (and only) partner](https://community.mymojo.com/t/erection-issue-with-first-and-only-partner/15403)
**Author:** [@actual-chocolate-butterfly](https://community.mymojo.com/u/actual-chocolate-butterfly)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [June 3, 2026, 11:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/erection-issue-with-first-and-only-partner/15403 "2026-06-03T11:56:24Z")
Iā€™ve only had one sexual partner (also my first and only girlfriend). I had never anticipated struggling with erections until our first time when it came to penetration and putting on the condom. She had noticed that it ā€¦ --- ## [Am I just worthless?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/am-i-just-worthless/14956)
**Author:** [@national-pink-tarsier](https://community.mymojo.com/u/national-pink-tarsier)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [May 28, 2026, 5:03am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/am-i-just-worthless/14956 "2026-05-28T05:03:29Z")
Yesterday, both times my wife and I tried to have sex I lost my erection. The first time I was able to get it back and finish the job, but she was still feeling insecure that I lost it at all. The second time I just gaveā€¦ --- ## [Group play dynamic](https://community.mymojo.com/t/group-play-dynamic/15376)
**Author:** [@sure-peach-urial](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sure-peach-urial)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 27, 2026, 12:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/group-play-dynamic/15376 "2026-05-27T12:34:23Z")
Iā€™m wondering if there are any other men out there that have erection issues when they are in group play dynamics. Like threesomes or sex parties? ļæ¼ --- ## [Group play and sex party situations](https://community.mymojo.com/t/group-play-and-sex-party-situations/15373)
**Author:** [@sure-peach-urial](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sure-peach-urial)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 26, 2026, 1:54pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/group-play-and-sex-party-situations/15373 "2026-05-26T13:54:38Z")
Iā€™m curious to see if there are any other men that go to sex parties or participate in group play with their partner. I have no issues at all getting hard and staying hard with my partner one on one but as soon as I am iā€¦ --- ## [Sex parties and group play](https://community.mymojo.com/t/sex-parties-and-group-play/15372)
**Author:** [@sure-peach-urial](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sure-peach-urial)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 26, 2026, 12:28pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/sex-parties-and-group-play/15372 "2026-05-26T12:28:00Z")
Iā€™m curious if there are any other members here that engaged in any group play, swinging, sex party lifestyle situations. Iā€™m able to get very hard to maintain an erection with my partner one on one, but when we are in ā€¦ --- ## [Inconsistent consistency](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inconsistent-consistency/15307)
**Author:** [@accepted-plum-iguana](https://community.mymojo.com/u/accepted-plum-iguana)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 19, 2026, 9:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inconsistent-consistency/15307 "2026-05-19T21:51:37Z")
I am a 25 yr old active male who has had a girlfriend for 2 years. The past 7 months I had really struggled with erections and making sure I can have sex. When I do manage it I notice that my confidence is high and the nā€¦ --- ## [Inconsistent sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inconsistent-sex/15240)
**Author:** [@accepted-plum-iguana](https://community.mymojo.com/u/accepted-plum-iguana)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 17, 2026, 5:41pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inconsistent-sex/15240 "2026-05-17T17:41:54Z")
Hi 25 pretty active male. Had a girlfriend for 2 years but in the past 7 months ran in to some real erection issues. When we have sex consistently and for a few days straight my confidence is high and there is no issues.ā€¦ --- ## [One step forward few steps back](https://community.mymojo.com/t/one-step-forward-few-steps-back/15106)
**Author:** [@geographical-aquamarine-sailfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/geographical-aquamarine-sailfish)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [May 11, 2026, 11:25pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/one-step-forward-few-steps-back/15106 "2026-05-11T23:25:34Z")
Iā€™ve been seeing this girl for close to 7 months now. I had erection struggles the first few times we got intimate, but that mostly went away as I got comfortable with her. I do use cialis for a boost also. Despite my erā€¦ --- ## [Couldnā€™t get it up/ Porn culprit?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/couldn-t-get-it-up-porn-culprit/15144)
**Author:** [@steady-green-newt](https://community.mymojo.com/u/steady-green-newt)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 8, 2026, 9:11pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/couldn-t-get-it-up-porn-culprit/15144 "2026-05-08T21:11:30Z")
Iā€™m a 22 year old male and I was at bars last night when a girl I had sex with last week asked me to come over. When I did it was super chill and very easy going. Foreplay was great and she even gave me the best head I hā€¦ --- ## [Quit porn and masterbation is the key](https://community.mymojo.com/t/quit-porn-and-masterbation-is-the-key/15000)
**Author:** [@selected-coffee-spoonbill](https://community.mymojo.com/u/selected-coffee-spoonbill)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [May 7, 2026, 10:44pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/quit-porn-and-masterbation-is-the-key/15000 "2026-05-07T22:44:36Z")
Hi (M20) always struggled with keeping it up me n my gf would struggle with having a sex as soon as condoms got involved my dick would stop working. This was a problem for over a year until I decided to quit everything, ā€¦ --- ## [Multiple sexual issues](https://community.mymojo.com/t/multiple-sexual-issues/14964)
**Author:** [@selective-aquamarine-donkey](https://community.mymojo.com/u/selective-aquamarine-donkey)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [April 1, 2026, 1:00am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/multiple-sexual-issues/14964 "2026-04-01T01:00:26Z")
i feel like iā€™m dealing with pretty much every problem in this community and i have no idea how i can manage them all and get to a healthy sex life. i discovered porn at a young age and used to edge for ages with a realā€¦ --- ## [What Has Worked For Me? Honesty](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-has-worked-for-me-honesty/8754)
**Author:** [@musical-copper-bedbug](https://community.mymojo.com/u/musical-copper-bedbug)\ **Replies:** 6\ **Last updated:** [March 25, 2026, 6:47pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-has-worked-for-me-honesty/8754 "2026-03-25T18:47:50Z")
I have dealt with the issue of performance anxiety related erectile dysfunction since the first time I ever tried to have sex. Over the years, the embarrassment and fear of embarrassment made it difficult for me to try ā€¦ --- ## [Performance anxiety as the reason](https://community.mymojo.com/t/performance-anxiety-as-the-reason/14948)
**Author:** [@identical-rose-snipe](https://community.mymojo.com/u/identical-rose-snipe)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [March 25, 2026, 4:37pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/performance-anxiety-as-the-reason/14948 "2026-03-25T16:37:35Z")
I went on a first date with a girl, one thing lead to another and we tried to have sex after a night of drinking, and I wasnā€™t able to perform. We hung out a few more times, but she now doesnā€™t want to pursue a romantiā€¦ --- ## [How do I know if itā€™s in my head or if my pelvic floor is week](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-it-s-in-my-head-or-if-my-pelvic-floor-is-week/14862)
**Author:** [@happy-amethyst-herring](https://community.mymojo.com/u/happy-amethyst-herring)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 21, 2026, 11:22pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-it-s-in-my-head-or-if-my-pelvic-floor-is-week/14862 "2026-03-21T23:22:34Z")
Hi lads, 22yo, very inexperienced, seeing a girl who has lots of experience First time v nervous could get it up just fingered her 2nd time she helped me slip it in albeit only semi 3rd time, I was relaxed, plenty of ā€¦ --- ## [I'm 26 and have erection problems](https://community.mymojo.com/t/im-26-and-have-erection-problems/12603)
**Author:** [@remote-salmon-porpoise](https://community.mymojo.com/u/remote-salmon-porpoise)\ **Replies:** 13\ **Last updated:** [March 19, 2026, 7:06pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/im-26-and-have-erection-problems/12603 "2026-03-19T19:06:24Z")
Itā€™s been two years. Love my girlfriend of 5 years to death. We went from having sex twice a week when not living together, to then once a week, then once every two weeks, the more I started having erectile issues the leā€¦ [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/c/erection-issues/11.md?page=1)