# Latest **URL:** https://community.mymojo.com/latest.md [Latest](https://community.mymojo.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://community.mymojo.com/categories.md) · [Tags](https://community.mymojo.com/tags.md) --- ## [How do you feel after your body scan?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-after-your-body-scan/14928)
**Author:** [@julia-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/julia-mojo)\ **Replies:** 133\ **Last updated:** [October 18, 2026, 12:55am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-after-your-body-scan/14928 "2026-10-18T00:55:16Z")
Bonus reflections: Did your mind wander? Where in your body did you notice any tension? Have you ever noticed that same tension during intimacy before? What would it be like to have sex after practicing this … --- ## [Do any of these stories sound familiar?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/do-any-of-these-stories-sound-familiar/14925)
**Author:** [@viv-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/viv-mojo)\ **Replies:** 1342\ **Last updated:** [October 17, 2026, 5:19pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/do-any-of-these-stories-sound-familiar/14925 "2026-10-17T17:19:36Z")
“They take it personally” workplace-pressure: “Work is chaos and my sex life is feeling it. I can’t get hard. My partner thinks I’m no longer attracted to them.” “No physical reason found” new-here: “I really like the n… --- ## [How was your practice?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-was-your-practice/14927)
**Author:** [@julia-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/julia-mojo)\ **Replies:** 469\ **Last updated:** [October 17, 2026, 11:49pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-was-your-practice/14927 "2026-10-17T23:49:41Z")
Can you see yourself using this technique in real life? --- ## [Recently cancelled my membership feeling defeated](https://community.mymojo.com/t/recently-cancelled-my-membership-feeling-defeated/14537)
**Author:** [@nearby-peach-hoverfly](https://community.mymojo.com/u/nearby-peach-hoverfly)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [October 17, 2026, 3:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/recently-cancelled-my-membership-feeling-defeated/14537 "2026-10-17T03:54:24Z")
Hello all. I hope this post finds you well. I’m a gay 36 year old guy. It’s very frustrating. 4 months of faithfully using this app everyday and nothing changed. My urologist refuses to prescribe any pills like viagra or… --- ## [When it comes to finding any distress beneath your habits, what are you most curious about?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/when-it-comes-to-finding-any-distress-beneath-your-habits-what-are-you-most-curious-about/14890)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 66\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 9:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/when-it-comes-to-finding-any-distress-beneath-your-habits-what-are-you-most-curious-about/14890 "2026-10-16T21:51:19Z")
The best thing you can take from this lesson is a renewed curiosity. What dots have you joined so far, and what do you hope to understand more deeply about yourself? --- ## [If you’ve tried to keep your porn habits in check in the past, what happened?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/if-you-ve-tried-to-keep-your-porn-habits-in-check-in-the-past-what-happened/14839)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 181\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 9:47pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/if-you-ve-tried-to-keep-your-porn-habits-in-check-in-the-past-what-happened/14839 "2026-10-16T21:47:05Z")
With the new information so far, what’s your take on why that happened? --- ## [Masturbating using wife’s bras](https://community.mymojo.com/t/masturbating-using-wife-s-bras/15589)
**Author:** [@spontaneous-maroon-cardinal](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spontaneous-maroon-cardinal)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 2:59pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/masturbating-using-wife-s-bras/15589 "2026-10-16T14:59:02Z")
I have found a recent new massive turn on in an attempt to stop watching porn by masturbating using my wife’s used bras (obviously without her knowing). Like smelling them, biting and sometimes licking them. I feel a bit… --- ## [How did box breath feel?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-did-box-breath-feel/11823)
**Author:** [@viv-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/viv-mojo)\ **Replies:** 89\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 2:38pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-did-box-breath-feel/11823 "2026-10-16T14:38:24Z")
Notice any shift in your body or mind. Even subtle ones count. You can use box breathing anytime you need to feel grounded or want to practice your mindfulness skills. --- ## [Did you have a specific orgasm goal in mind when you started Mojo? Where do you think that goal stems from?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/did-you-have-a-specific-orgasm-goal-in-mind-when-you-started-mojo-where-do-you-think-that-goal-stems-from/15586)
**Author:** [@viv-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/viv-mojo)\ **Replies:** 74\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 2:22pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/did-you-have-a-specific-orgasm-goal-in-mind-when-you-started-mojo-where-do-you-think-that-goal-stems-from/15586 "2026-10-16T14:22:56Z")
For example, did you want to orgasm without a vibrator, or find new ways to reach orgasm? --- ## [Soft During Masterbation](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-during-masterbation/16426)
**Author:** [@abstract-silver-bass](https://community.mymojo.com/u/abstract-silver-bass)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 1:40pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-during-masterbation/16426 "2026-10-16T13:40:46Z")
After getting soft during sex for the first time I got worried I was broken and I tried testing while masturbating and now I can’t even get hard at home. Has anyone overcome this or had similar experience --- ## [Which type of ANT feels most familiar to you?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/which-type-of-ant-feels-most-familiar-to-you/14936)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 52\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 6:06am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/which-type-of-ant-feels-most-familiar-to-you/14936 "2026-10-16T06:06:58Z")
Do you notice it before, during, or after sex? --- ## [Exploring in the bedroom](https://community.mymojo.com/t/exploring-in-the-bedroom/16423)
**Author:** [@spontaneous-plum-bat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spontaneous-plum-bat)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2026, 3:49am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/exploring-in-the-bedroom/16423 "2026-10-16T03:49:54Z")
How have you started conversations with your wife/girlfriend to try and spice things up in the bedroom? I’m always nervous to bring things up but I know from past relationships that exploring helps with my ED. I think i… --- ## [Reflect on a time you re-contained shame](https://community.mymojo.com/t/reflect-on-a-time-you-re-contained-shame/14910)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 16\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2026, 8:45pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/reflect-on-a-time-you-re-contained-shame/14910 "2026-10-15T20:45:11Z")
Use the new information in this lesson to reflect on the past few weeks. Can you think of a behavior that might have been a shame re-containment strategy? If you feel up to it, share how you felt and what happened. Rem… --- ## [Feeling numbness](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feeling-numbness/15820)
**Author:** [@digital-copper-giraffe](https://community.mymojo.com/u/digital-copper-giraffe)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2026, 11:17am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/feeling-numbness/15820 "2026-10-15T11:17:18Z")
When getting intimate with female partners, sometimes I just feel numb, like there’s no control, I can’t feel my penis or stimulate it enough to get hard, even if she helps with hand or mouth. Then the next day, I can ea… --- ## [The relationship side of it](https://community.mymojo.com/t/the-relationship-side-of-it/16422)
**Author:** [@sunny-bronze-koi](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sunny-bronze-koi)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2026, 10:30am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/the-relationship-side-of-it/16422 "2026-10-15T10:30:54Z")
I can’t stay hard all the time. It comes and goes. Sometimes everything’s fine and sometimes it’s a disaster. I’m working on it, clearly. But how do you deal with the relationship side of things? I feel like my gf is goi… --- ## [I'm feeling angry](https://community.mymojo.com/t/im-feeling-angry/16170)
**Author:** [@youngest-tomato-aardwolf](https://community.mymojo.com/u/youngest-tomato-aardwolf)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2026, 10:26am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/im-feeling-angry/16170 "2026-10-15T10:26:27Z")
I have struggled with getting hard and staying hard for years. I always thought this was porn induced ED. But it has been 1 year since I watched porn and jerked off simultaneously and I am still struggling to achieve and… --- ## [Small talk to stranger](https://community.mymojo.com/t/small-talk-to-stranger/15333)
**Author:** [@logical-purple-pig](https://community.mymojo.com/u/logical-purple-pig)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2026, 10:25am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/small-talk-to-stranger/15333 "2026-10-15T10:25:30Z")
How do you get good at it? I think my inability to maintain a conversation stops me approaching people --- ## [What else might you do to release or redirect sexual tension?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-else-might-you-do-to-release-or-redirect-sexual-tension/14909)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [October 14, 2026, 9:17pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-else-might-you-do-to-release-or-redirect-sexual-tension/14909 "2026-10-14T21:17:48Z")
A state where you need an outlet or a redirect. --- ## [What gives you a zing when you’re feeling flat?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-gives-you-a-zing-when-you-re-feeling-flat/14908)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 15\ **Last updated:** [October 14, 2026, 9:16pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-gives-you-a-zing-when-you-re-feeling-flat/14908 "2026-10-14T21:16:51Z")
Flat means low energy or like there’s nothing worth engaging with. You need a spark or sensory hit. --- ## [What works for you when you’re tense?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-works-for-you-when-you-re-tense/14907)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 19\ **Last updated:** [October 14, 2026, 9:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-works-for-you-when-you-re-tense/14907 "2026-10-14T21:15:21Z")
You’re activated. Cortisol is up. You need to discharge or decompress. Examples: Have a long, hot shower Go for a boxing class Call someone and vent Masturbate without porn Say out loud any words that need to come out… --- ## [What are your ideas for providing yourself with distraction when bored?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-are-your-ideas-for-providing-yourself-with-distraction-when-bored/14905)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 23\ **Last updated:** [October 14, 2026, 9:14pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-are-your-ideas-for-providing-yourself-with-distraction-when-bored/14905 "2026-10-14T21:14:06Z")
Share your inspo. --- ## [4-7-8 breath — what did you think?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/4-7-8-breath-what-did-you-think/9273)
**Author:** [@viv-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/viv-mojo)\ **Replies:** 202\ **Last updated:** [October 14, 2026, 6:32pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/4-7-8-breath-what-did-you-think/9273 "2026-10-14T18:32:01Z")
Do you feel calmer? --- ## [Can you relate to Yasmin's story?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-you-relate-to-yasmins-story/15545)
**Author:** [@julia-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/julia-mojo)\ **Replies:** 36\ **Last updated:** [October 14, 2026, 7:57am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/can-you-relate-to-yasmins-story/15545 "2026-10-14T07:57:36Z")
Share where you’re at right now. --- ## [Think about a recent time you wanted to watch porn](https://community.mymojo.com/t/think-about-a-recent-time-you-wanted-to-watch-porn/14889)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 122\ **Last updated:** [October 14, 2026, 12:51am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/think-about-a-recent-time-you-wanted-to-watch-porn/14889 "2026-10-14T00:51:27Z")
What was your reason why? --- ## [What has stopped you from communicating what you need to be able to orgasm during partnered sex?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-has-stopped-you-from-communicating-what-you-need-to-be-able-to-orgasm-during-partnered-sex/15585)
**Author:** [@viv-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/viv-mojo)\ **Replies:** 171\ **Last updated:** [October 13, 2026, 1:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-has-stopped-you-from-communicating-what-you-need-to-be-able-to-orgasm-during-partnered-sex/15585 "2026-10-13T13:15:19Z")
Share your answers with others in the course. --- ## [How was your felt sense inventory?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-was-your-felt-sense-inventory/14947)
**Author:** [@viv-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/viv-mojo)\ **Replies:** 22\ **Last updated:** [October 13, 2026, 8:53am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-was-your-felt-sense-inventory/14947 "2026-10-13T08:53:35Z")
Did you notice any tension? --- ## [How did the sense of awe exercise go?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-did-the-sense-of-awe-exercise-go/14922)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [October 13, 2026, 2:52am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-did-the-sense-of-awe-exercise-go/14922 "2026-10-13T02:52:08Z")
Where did you choose and what happened? Where would you like to try this exercise in the future? --- ## [What permission are you giving yourself?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-permission-are-you-giving-yourself/14916)
**Author:** [@grace-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grace-mojo)\ **Replies:** 12\ **Last updated:** [October 12, 2026, 3:20pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-permission-are-you-giving-yourself/14916 "2026-10-12T15:20:39Z")
You can write it as a message to yourself (or your inner child). Or if that’s not your style, just plainly describe what pursuit you’re going to permit now — and how you’re going to start. --- ## [Share what you’ve taken away from today’s lesson, or what’s motivating you to complete this course](https://community.mymojo.com/t/share-what-you-ve-taken-away-from-today-s-lesson-or-what-s-motivating-you-to-complete-this-course/15546)
**Author:** [@julia-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/julia-mojo)\ **Replies:** 20\ **Last updated:** [October 12, 2026, 1:06pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/share-what-you-ve-taken-away-from-today-s-lesson-or-what-s-motivating-you-to-complete-this-course/15546 "2026-10-12T13:06:13Z")
It might be something like… “I now know that… it’s not my fault, it’s not forever, I’m not the only one.” “I felt stuck, but now I feel hopeful.” “I’m doing this because I want to… initiate sex, feel confident again, … --- ## [How would you describe your inner critic?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-would-you-describe-your-inner-critic/7749)
**Author:** [@viv-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/viv-mojo)\ **Replies:** 8087\ **Last updated:** [October 12, 2026, 6:21am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-would-you-describe-your-inner-critic/7749 "2026-10-12T06:21:21Z")
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