I have noticed that could stay hard durinv foreplay. But lost my erection during penetration. Often my girl would say she was too tired or we disnt have time when I was horny even though i still had my inner critic tgere to sabatoge my erection. However… I would promise my girl that I would only do two pumps and we could save it for another time. It was unbeleiveable but I became really confident because I could almost always last 2 pumps before I went soft and I have had really good sex fully hard until I came. I didnt stol at 2 pumps but I mnwe
I could have and not been judged. I hope this may help someone out there it works for me.
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What is ‘two pumps’?
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Yep I hear you Ive found sometimes during sex if you are short on time for some reason you say let’s just stick it in for a bit it takes the pressure off and also makes you focus on sensations rather than triggering negative thoughts so it’s no stress fun only - thx for the reminder on this one!
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It is just offering to penetrate her for 2 full deep pumps lnly then pull out. It takes a lot of pressure off worrying about keeping hard knowing you can stop after the two pumps and she is ok with it. I tell her if we are too busy for sex that i only want to do a 2 pumper.