Quick back storyā¦Iām someone whoās always had ED issues, normally only the first few times I attempt to sleep with a new person, then I come right once my body realises whatās going on.
Have been secretly taking the pills with the last girl.
Started using this app 2 months ago as I met someone new and no longer want to rely on Viagra.
The first night was greatā¦got hard from making out, gave her oral (boner dissapeared but then came back after more kissing) and had great sex.
BJ the next morning AND that nightā¦no issuesā¦
The second morning, woke up with morning wood (thinking to myself OMG Iāve defeated this)ā¦as soon as it entered her for penetrative sexā¦dick went kinda numbā¦within a minute or so it was all over and then refused to get hard againā¦was annoying.
No idea why this happens, it initially felt good, but then my body entered fight or flight mode and it wouldnāt get out. When this happened I even tried self masturbation but my whole body was tense (as if I was about to enter a boxing match)
Itās super annoying as thatās how the weekend ended, so a bit of a shot to my confidence.
As I felt myself going softā¦I tried to focus on my breathā¦.but no good, I felt like I was then focused on breathing and not the feeling of sex.
Anyway boys, long story short Iām calling this a win. This is literally the first time in my life Iāve maintained a hard on with a condom and cameā¦I honestly believe itās all because of this appā¦thatās the only thing thatās changed.
If anyone has had similar experiences, and how they got āback into their bodyā Iād love to hear ya story.
Cheers
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Bro what a win, that gets me fired up to hear. Iāve been having on and off issues for a while now but overall I think Iāve been able to pinpoint what works and what doesnāt. Super important to stay positive and remember the good stuffā our brains are so wired to fixate on the bad and spiral, but when we step back and look at the whole picture, thereās often a ton of improvement. Keep grinding man youāre an inspiration
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Cheers broā¦.yep, itās hard to undo 20 years of boner issues within a couple of monthsā¦but def feeling more positive!
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The biggest win in my opinion isnāt the result imo, itās that in both attempts you came in with a fresh mind state and used all the tools you had in your disposal. Congrats on that win.
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Thanks!
The biggest thing I noticedā¦I was actually far more horny and hard when NOT on the pills! As it was natural maybe or could have been as I was so pleased it was working and it felt like 100% me.
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Bit of an update fellasā¦.a week later and things have only gotten better!!
Morning wood basically each morning, sex once or twice a day, I feel calm and relaxed - therefore more hornyā¦also not thinking about if it will āget hardā all day, like I was a few weeks ago.
Have I bet this thingā¦probably not completely and I may have the pre performance nerves with the next new girl, but atm things are the best theyāve ever been.
Iām going to continue using the app for another few monthsā¦mainly for the meditation stuff.
Would I have gotten this relaxed without the appā¦no way. Itās definitely given me some tools that Iāll use forever.
I think the biggest thing I can take away from this is - not to try to have sex 100% of the time!!! ESPECIALLY when youāre not horny!!!
Recipe for disaster.
Iāve found spending time with the girl has made my mind far quieterā¦
Good luck to everyone out there! Any questions, chat on this thread!!
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Your posts resonate a lot with me. On/off ED issues all my life (I couldnāt get it up when I was about to lose my virginity) and I have since found myself using meds secretly when not in a relationship.
Iām now working to fully overcome this, which is tough as Iāve got some pretty ingrained beliefs about my body and performance.
But totally agree that you should see your progress as a win, even if itās not āperfectā performance. Some great positives to focus on, and good advice not to assume that intercourse always has to be the end goal (I definitely struggle with this one). Great stuff.
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glad Iām not the only one that goes soft either entering or thinking of entering
Has been a problem for me since day one if anyone has other suggestions please let me know
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Itās definitely a struggle! Jerking off is great tho lol
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