# An interesting weekend **URL:** \ **Category:** šŸ† Erection issues\ **Created:** [September 14, 2025, 11:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400 "2025-09-14T23:15:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![continuous-crimson-cougar](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/continuous-crimson-cougar/32/387748_2.png) [@continuous-crimson-cougar](https://community.mymojo.com/u/continuous-crimson-cougar)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2025, 11:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/1 "2025-09-14T23:15:31Z")
Quick back storyā€¦Iā€™m someone whoā€™s always had ED issues, normally only the first few times I attempt to sleep with a new person, then I come right once my body realises whatā€™s going on. Have been secretly taking the pills with the last girl. Started using this app 2 months ago as I met someone new and no longer want to rely on Viagra. The first night was greatā€¦got hard from making out, gave her oral (boner dissapeared but then came back after more kissing) and had great sex. BJ the next morning AND that nightā€¦no issuesā€¦ The second morning, woke up with morning wood (thinking to myself OMG Iā€™ve defeated this)ā€¦as soon as it entered her for penetrative sexā€¦dick went kinda numbā€¦within a minute or so it was all over and then refused to get hard againā€¦was annoying. No idea why this happens, it initially felt good, but then my body entered fight or flight mode and it wouldnā€™t get out. When this happened I even tried self masturbation but my whole body was tense (as if I was about to enter a boxing match) Itā€™s super annoying as thatā€™s how the weekend ended, so a bit of a shot to my confidence. As I felt myself going softā€¦I tried to focus on my breathā€¦.but no good, I felt like I was then focused on breathing and not the feeling of sex. Anyway boys, long story short Iā€™m calling this a win. This is literally the first time in my life Iā€™ve maintained a hard on with a condom and cameā€¦I honestly believe itā€™s all because of this appā€¦thatā€™s the only thing thatā€™s changed. If anyone has had similar experiences, and how they got ā€œback into their bodyā€ Iā€™d love to hear ya story. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![racial-teal-penguin](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/racial-teal-penguin/32/412021_2.png) [@racial-teal-penguin](https://community.mymojo.com/u/racial-teal-penguin)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2025, 11:57pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/2 "2025-09-15T23:57:58Z")
Bro what a win, that gets me fired up to hear. Iā€™ve been having on and off issues for a while now but overall I think Iā€™ve been able to pinpoint what works and what doesnā€™t. Super important to stay positive and remember the good stuffā€” our brains are so wired to fixate on the bad and spiral, but when we step back and look at the whole picture, thereā€™s often a ton of improvement. Keep grinding man youā€™re an inspiration ---
**Author:** ![respective-yellow-crow](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/respective-yellow-crow/32/413238_2.png) [@respective-yellow-crow](https://community.mymojo.com/u/respective-yellow-crow)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2025, 12:30am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/3 "2025-09-16T00:30:45Z")
Cheers broā€¦.yep, itā€™s hard to undo 20 years of boner issues within a couple of monthsā€¦but def feeling more positive! ---
**Author:** ![uniform-lavender-gibbon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/9e8a1a/32.png) [@uniform-lavender-gibbon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/uniform-lavender-gibbon)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2025, 2:10am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/4 "2025-09-16T02:10:14Z")
The biggest win in my opinion isnā€™t the result imo, itā€™s that in both attempts you came in with a fresh mind state and used all the tools you had in your disposal. Congrats on that win. ---
**Author:** ![respective-yellow-crow](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/respective-yellow-crow/32/413238_2.png) [@respective-yellow-crow](https://community.mymojo.com/u/respective-yellow-crow)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2025, 6:52am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/5 "2025-09-16T06:52:18Z")
Thanks! The biggest thing I noticedā€¦I was actually far more horny and hard when NOT on the pills! As it was natural maybe or could have been as I was so pleased it was working and it felt like 100% me. ---
**Author:** ![respective-yellow-crow](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/respective-yellow-crow/32/413238_2.png) [@respective-yellow-crow](https://community.mymojo.com/u/respective-yellow-crow)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2025, 1:45am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/6 "2025-09-20T01:45:35Z")
Bit of an update fellasā€¦.a week later and things have only gotten better!! Morning wood basically each morning, sex once or twice a day, I feel calm and relaxed - therefore more hornyā€¦also not thinking about if it will ā€œget hardā€ all day, like I was a few weeks ago. Have I bet this thingā€¦probably not completely and I may have the pre performance nerves with the next new girl, but atm things are the best theyā€™ve ever been. Iā€™m going to continue using the app for another few monthsā€¦mainly for the meditation stuff. Would I have gotten this relaxed without the appā€¦no way. Itā€™s definitely given me some tools that Iā€™ll use forever. I think the biggest thing I can take away from this is - not to try to have sex 100% of the time!!! ESPECIALLY when youā€™re not horny!!! Recipe for disaster. Iā€™ve found spending time with the girl has made my mind far quieterā€¦ Good luck to everyone out there! Any questions, chat on this thread!! ---
**Author:** ![consistent-bronze-quelea](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/consistent-bronze-quelea/32/409261_2.png) [@consistent-bronze-quelea](https://community.mymojo.com/u/consistent-bronze-quelea)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2025, 10:26am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/7 "2025-09-20T10:26:05Z")
Your posts resonate a lot with me. On/off ED issues all my life (I couldnā€™t get it up when I was about to lose my virginity) and I have since found myself using meds secretly when not in a relationship. Iā€™m now working to fully overcome this, which is tough as Iā€™ve got some pretty ingrained beliefs about my body and performance. But totally agree that you should see your progress as a win, even if itā€™s not ā€˜perfectā€™ performance. Some great positives to focus on, and good advice not to assume that intercourse always has to be the end goal (I definitely struggle with this one). Great stuff. ---
**Author:** ![additional-gray-wolverine](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/additional-gray-wolverine/32/272002_2.png) [@additional-gray-wolverine](https://community.mymojo.com/u/additional-gray-wolverine)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2025, 11:21am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/8 "2025-09-20T11:21:05Z")
glad Iā€™m not the only one that goes soft either entering or thinking of entering Has been a problem for me since day one if anyone has other suggestions please let me know ---
**Author:** ![variable-coral-gazelle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/e9bcb4/32.png) [@variable-coral-gazelle](https://community.mymojo.com/u/variable-coral-gazelle)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2025, 11:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/an-interesting-weekend/11400/9 "2025-09-20T11:56:11Z")
Itā€™s definitely a struggle! Jerking off is great tho lol