Dream: more closely connected, more physically intimate, each of us a higher priority to each other
Design: honest effort to share things openly, both parties committed, a willingness from me to accept certain things about my partner
Discovery-for me it’s the intimacy of a relationship. Not just the physical but the emotional, mental, spiritual
Dream-having a life partner
Design-continued work on growing individually to make myself the best version of me.
Discovery: open and honest communication with an ability to share desires, concerns, and everything in between
Design: continue to work on myself and solidify what I want. Grow in confidence to share those things and be comfortable knowing what I want. Work through hurt and trauma to present these things in a healthy way
Dream: an ability to embrace exploration, desire, and closeness free from limited masculine and feminine stereotypes to rather be ourselves whatever that means
Discovery: The best parts of a relationship is having a partner in crime. Just to have fun. To thinking about doing something crazy looking at her and seeing the same mischief in her eyes “go on then”. And then after the crazy adventure to come back into our little safe space and just be who we are around each other.
Watching tv and having a cuddle, shearing stories about the past and planning for the future
Go for walk, talk and laugh deeply, go on holidays
I need to be more present and not switch off when she’s talking, so I can engage fully
Cuddle , enjoy each other’s company, have sex as we feel like it
She’s my best friend and always there for me.
Want to be happy and sexually active and healthy.
Continue to make effort and follow thru.
Need to stay focused and work thru with my partner.
I love how she’s always there for me and wants to be with me
I want to come home from work to dinner, and spend the night with her at home after doing whatever else I need to do
I need to move in with her
I need to make sure I do whatever needs to be done to support her and the family I intend to build
That she’s always there for me, that she makes me feel loved.
To be fully trusting and at peace with each other.
Keep communicating, keep bonding and keep having difficult conversations
Be present, calm my head when anxiety sets and take responsibility for my own issues
1D Physical connection
Shared interests
Interesting perspectives and conversations
2D Reinvigorated connection
Evolving relationship
Teamwork/motivating each other
Family building
3D Better commitment to consistent communication and buy in from both sides.
Emotional maturity
4D identify my own shortcomings
Be vocal and honest about wants and needs
View my partners perspective
1D : Touch and intimacy
Shared interests and common humour
2D: be vulnerable. Connecting with each other. Be a safe space for each other.
3D: emotional maturity; more communication. Listening out for verbal and non verbal cues to show connection, attention and affirmation via touch, activities, talking, supporting
4D: being open with my partner . This could be done by having a debrief at the end of the day to see how they are - where they are at.
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The non sexual intimacy, shared interests, and just the presence of the individual.
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Regain unwavering confidence, have great conversations with partners, and be able to support one another
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Avoid explicit content, go outside more, exercise, strike more conversations.
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Fasting can help, prayer as well. Getting quality sleep too
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1.when we’re both high asf or js tg eatin,talking shit abt people and acting silly
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college is going to get in the way, she wants to go to tsu(a party school) and i going to kent state for fashion design. i WANT us to be together after or during college but honestly that factor is wayyyyy out of my control all i can do at this moment honestly is enjoy everything as it is now and if the hurt comes later atleast this time im ready
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i feel like if we bond more outside of sex and just fall more inlove we can be in the right state to have crazy intimate sex
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just keep building and building a stronger bond with her spirit opening mine up to hers and hers up to mine