# Arousal and PE conflict

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/arousal-and-pe-conflict/6329>\
**Category:** 🌋 Early climax\
**Created:** [June 11, 2024, 6:18am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/arousal-and-pe-conflict/6329 "2024-06-11T06:18:45Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![structural-lime-tarsier](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/structural-lime-tarsier/32/336717_2.png) [@structural-lime-tarsier](https://community.mymojo.com/u/structural-lime-tarsier)\
**Post date:** [June 11, 2024, 6:18am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/arousal-and-pe-conflict/6329/1 "2024-06-11T06:18:45Z")

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I have suffered from PE for a while now that I try to control my arousal so that I don’t cum too early during sex. This I think prevents me from getting hard. Caught in this vicious loop of overthinking during foreplay or just minutes before sex is about to happen. I don’t have these issues on solo exercises but I hope that I can break through this cycle when trying to have sex with my wife.

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**Author:** ![permanent-yellow-blackbird](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/permanent-yellow-blackbird/32/446945_2.png) [@permanent-yellow-blackbird](https://community.mymojo.com/u/permanent-yellow-blackbird)\
**Post date:** [June 11, 2024, 3:38pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/arousal-and-pe-conflict/6329/2 "2024-06-11T15:38:44Z")

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Same. Fuck’n sucks.

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**Author:** ![better-bronze-wallaby](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/better-bronze-wallaby/32/442832_2.png) [@better-bronze-wallaby](https://community.mymojo.com/u/better-bronze-wallaby)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2024, 10:53am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/arousal-and-pe-conflict/6329/3 "2024-06-12T10:53:17Z")

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Same boat here, hoping this course will make things better. Mrs is completely bored of sex now.

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**Author:** ![developing-purple-elephant](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/developing-purple-elephant/32/446482_2.png) [@developing-purple-elephant](https://community.mymojo.com/u/developing-purple-elephant)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2024, 4:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/arousal-and-pe-conflict/6329/4 "2024-06-12T16:34:48Z")

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Same. I’ve had a few of my sex partners over the years give critical remarks about how long I lasted, and I can tell that it still affects me. Talking with new partners about the anxiety has definitely helped it lessen, though it’s not perfect yet. Hopefully your wife is understanding.