# Big dick but tough to cum **URL:** \ **Category:** ⏳ Delayed ejaculation\ **Created:** [January 2, 2025, 2:02am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488 "2025-01-02T02:02:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![anon35671111](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@anon35671111](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon35671111)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2025, 2:02am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/1 "2025-01-02T02:02:19Z")
Not trying to humble brag here, but I get a fair amount of action after word got around to some friend groups that I’m hung (9” and an ex sent pics to some friends which then travelled). I’m enjoying myself, but I also started taking lexapro recently for anxiety which has made it a lot harder to cum, which people tend to wait for and are disappointed when I can’t. There is however one person that can make me cum in 2 minutes flat riding me, so I’m not sure what the issue is, and when I masturbate it takes forever to cum. Has anyone else had both of these issues? ---
**Author:** ![corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/corresponding-aqua-antelope/32/388006_2.png) [@corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://community.mymojo.com/u/corresponding-aqua-antelope)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2025, 2:08am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/2 "2025-01-02T02:08:16Z")
That medication can make it difficult to cum. If you’re still able to stay hard theirs no issue. It’s a very common side affect of lexapro ---
**Author:** ![fit-brown-ferret](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/fit-brown-ferret/32/262104_2.png) [@fit-brown-ferret](https://community.mymojo.com/u/fit-brown-ferret)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2025, 3:02am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/3 "2025-01-02T03:02:43Z")
Whats your dose. I had trouble finishing when I was on 20mg. But when I dropped to 10mg it improved alot ---
**Author:** ![safe-black-raven](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/safe-black-raven/32/374506_2.png) [@safe-black-raven](https://community.mymojo.com/u/safe-black-raven)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2025, 5:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/4 "2025-01-02T05:56:20Z")
Nothing humble about this brag. Just start with “I started taking lexepro.” The rest was totally unnecessary. There are guys here trying to rebuild confidence. ---
**Author:** ![able-ivory-wildfowl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@able-ivory-wildfowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/able-ivory-wildfowl)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2025, 8:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/5 "2025-01-02T08:54:04Z")
Completely irrelevant to the issue at hand - I agree with you whole heartedly. Had size not been mentioned literally nothing would have been lost from the question. ---
**Author:** ![anon35671111](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@anon35671111](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon35671111)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 1:42am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/6 "2025-01-03T01:42:08Z")
I get where you’re coming from, I brought it up because I’ve noticed being larger brings along certain expectations. Also I’ve seen plenty of guys bring up their size here in a multitude of ways whether confident or less-so, so I don’t see the issue personally ---
**Author:** ![anon35671111](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@anon35671111](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon35671111)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 2:26am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/7 "2025-01-03T02:26:16Z")
10mg, started on 5 and noticed it got worse when I upped the dose ---
**Author:** ![anon35671111](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@anon35671111](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon35671111)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 6:30pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/8 "2025-01-03T18:30:16Z")
Yeah getting and staying hard is never a problem, my partners get pretty sore when it’s been 45 minutes and I haven’t cum yet, and I get tired too ---
**Author:** ![corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/corresponding-aqua-antelope/32/388006_2.png) [@corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://community.mymojo.com/u/corresponding-aqua-antelope)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 7:06pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/9 "2025-01-03T19:06:41Z")
I could imagine it’d be a rough ride 😂 ---
**Author:** ![compatible-beige-swordfish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/compatible-beige-swordfish/32/449984_2.png) [@compatible-beige-swordfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/compatible-beige-swordfish)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 7:31pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/10 "2025-01-03T19:31:20Z")
Luck you mate, that’s all I can say ---
**Author:** ![driving-black-reptile](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/90ced4/32.png) [@driving-black-reptile](https://community.mymojo.com/u/driving-black-reptile)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 7:35pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/11 "2025-01-03T19:35:48Z")
Good on you!!! They give Birth to a 10pound baby; dont fool yourself. 9" is nothing. As far as the cumming. Who cares if u cum or not. Enjoy the penetration and the lady underneath you. Get out of your head and savor the interaction. Women also do not cum everytime so stop pressuring yourself ---
**Author:** ![anon35671111](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@anon35671111](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon35671111)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 8:46pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/12 "2025-01-03T20:46:14Z")
Hah yeah runs in the family I guess ---
**Author:** ![anon35671111](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@anon35671111](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon35671111)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 8:48pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/13 "2025-01-03T20:48:54Z")
Hah I get your point, I’m not looking to cause damage or pain like giving birth, but I do often have to start and stop because it’s hurting them ---
**Author:** ![corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/corresponding-aqua-antelope/32/388006_2.png) [@corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://community.mymojo.com/u/corresponding-aqua-antelope)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2025, 11:47pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/14 "2025-01-04T23:47:15Z")
And taking breaks to catch your breath is always needed lol ---
**Author:** ![anon35671111](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@anon35671111](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon35671111)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2025, 7:59pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/15 "2025-01-17T19:59:23Z")
It is for whoever I’m inside of for sure ---
**Author:** ![corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/corresponding-aqua-antelope/32/388006_2.png) [@corresponding-aqua-antelope](https://community.mymojo.com/u/corresponding-aqua-antelope)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2025, 9:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/big-dick-but-tough-to-cum/8488/16 "2025-01-17T21:04:52Z")
I’m sure I’d be catching breaths inbetween moans lol