# Came back down 3-1 and won the championship **URL:** \ **Category:** 🙌 Success stories\ **Created:** [April 9, 2025, 5:42pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/came-back-down-3-1-and-won-the-championship/9038 "2025-04-09T17:42:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 1
**Author:** ![uniform-rose-raven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/6a8cbe/32.png) [@uniform-rose-raven](https://community.mymojo.com/u/uniform-rose-raven)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2025, 5:42pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/came-back-down-3-1-and-won-the-championship/9038/1 "2025-04-09T17:42:24Z")
I (26m) went through a really rough breakup about 6 months ago, 5 year relationship ended randomly, completely blind sided me. My first opportunity to have sex with a new woman ended in me completely soft and losing every shred of confidence in me. This woman ripped me for not being able to get hard (yeah she was a shitty person) even tho I communicated and tried my best to explain it wasn’t her Fast forward 3 months and I’ve been talking to a new girl I really like, insane chemistry, she’s exactly my type and I’m terrified it’s gonna happen again. 3rd date and we get down to it, I’m putting on a foreplay show, when she reaches down and feels I’m not hard. She pulls away from my penis embarrassed. I explained to her it happens with new people sometimes and when I’m drunk, that it works just fine but it might take a minute (I had no clue if it would but I said it with confidence anyways) She smiled and started giving me head, and it still wasn’t responding. It felt good but I was just thinking to myself “get hard please why am I not hard” and my heart was pounding. Then I locked in. I shut off my mind and focused on every sensation, while I took deep diaphragmatic breaths. I took my own hand and jerked off as I played with her and kissed her, which was a total turn on for her. I focused on alternating between reverse kegels/kegels and before long, boom, I’m hard, and we had incredible sex. I even started to lose it a couple time during sex and once again just hit the reverse kegel/kegel and was able to get it right back. She finished 3 times and was genuinely blown away, did not care at all about the 5 minute jump start at the beginning. We’ve since had sex 3 more times in the last week, and while I haven’t been rock hard the whole time every time, I’ve blown her mind every time which has given me such an insane confidence boost I feel like a new man. She literally finished 5 times last night (with a lot of calculated effort on my end of course) Biggest thing I can say is when you get down to it and you’re not hard, don’t give up. Be confident and communicate, you don’t have to sound ashamed. Do what you have to do to get hard, do anything you can. Focus on yourself, use your hand if you have to while you play with her. Kegel, reverse kegel, find whatever works for you to manually jumpstart yourself. Because it’s so damn worth it when you get a win. I feel like LeBron, I feel like I just came back down 3-1 and won the damn chip. --- _[View the full topic](https://community.mymojo.com/t/came-back-down-3-1-and-won-the-championship/9038)._