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I get stuck in my head when I can’t come
Yes I’ll have MS I’ll take medicine and depression med
Yes it’s upsetting
I just feel like all my desire has spontaneously vanished
i struggle with getting aroused but i did find that antidepressants had a positive effect for me in the past
Yes mine have been taking loads of time
Just no desire. When I’m in the moment it doesn’t always happen for me. So over it.
I can’t orgasm at all and don’t feel much of anything during sex. It makes me feel broken and disconnected. Like my body doesn’t work.
My sexual partner is my dismissive avoidant ex partner whom broke up with me in January but we started sleeping together 6 weeks after the break up & for the first few months it was great! But now he is so far from mentally being in the same room as me that I feel the distance & its almost like he would rather be anywhere else but there in that moment with me… I’m now day 2 in of no contact & am hoping after some time apart the great physical, emotional & sexual chemistry is reignited. (We both agreed that a relationship is not healthy for us but a sexual & friends relationship does work for us)
I am in perimenopause and unfortunately I have completely lost all desire. I look at my husband and know that I love him but all of the feelings of desire have just vanished. When we do have sex there is absolutely no feeling.
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I don’t really get aroused anymore and when I do I almost and then I lose it.
I have no issue with desire, and I’m easily aroused. My issue is that I can’t orgasm, and it makes me feel like I shouldn’t let my partner pleasure me - I get too in my head and feel like a failure
I’m on high doses of psychotropic medication for depression and bipolar. I used to have such a high sex drive but since having a hysterectomy and all these meds I’m on it’s become non existent. I’ve been put on estrogen but that only gives me a little moisture and I still dry up like a desert and still not able to have an orgasm
I’m the same way
Same here!
High desire, difficulty orgasming during sex
I desensitised myself through extensive masturbation even before I started having sex. I want to learn that I can orgasm with someone else, not just by myself
I have the desire but I can no longer reach orgasm. This is since I was diagnosed with breast cancer and they took away all of my hormones