Same here.
I’m 44 and I can have a clitoral orgasm with a partner but it takes a lot of effort, but the only time I can have a vaginal orgasm is if I’m have a clitoral orgasm at the same time. I’ve always been embarrassed about it and felt like something is wrong with me.
Same
I’m 56 and I was always able to have clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm. Now both are gone. I can have clitoral orgasms with toys only now. I have strong desire and so does my husband I just can’t get there anymore.
I can’t orgasm without a vibrator anymore, and even that can sometimes take 40 minutes. I’m on medication to help with pain but it’s definitely made orgasm harder. Although, I have always struggled to orgasm without a vibrator anyway
I used to be able to orgasm when on top, no I can only do it when I stimulate myself, if that. It usually takes almost an hour for jt to happen, and a couple of times I had to give up on it because it just wouldn’t happen. Always almost there, too often it just wont happen
It takes so much work. Sensitivity isn’t like it used to be
I can relate
I am not as sensitive down there as I would like to be
I can totally relate. It’s harder and harder to orgasm with my partner, and sometimes even by myself, it takes forever. It used to be so easy.
I dont know why it’s harder to get there with my husband, but I can get close by myself. Even by myself though I dont “finish” because I always stop before I do.
I had my first orgasm a few months ago. I was able to do it every day for several months and then it’s been unsuccessful and I feel like I lost it