# Cant seem to get hard enough to penetrate!

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/cant-seem-to-get-hard-enough-to-penetrate/9222>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [May 26, 2025, 6:30pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cant-seem-to-get-hard-enough-to-penetrate/9222 "2025-05-26T18:30:15Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![entire-indigo-anaconda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ac8455/32.png) [@entire-indigo-anaconda](https://community.mymojo.com/u/entire-indigo-anaconda)\
**Post date:** [May 26, 2025, 6:30pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cant-seem-to-get-hard-enough-to-penetrate/9222/1 "2025-05-26T18:30:15Z")

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I’m back in a physical and sexual relationship after a few years of being apart but still living together, and my wife has been with another man the last year and is now back with me, but now its all i think about and being able to preform is next to impossible! I can’t seem to get out of my own head and its killing my inner self and making it impossible to do the deed!

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**Author:** ![logical-black-platypus](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/logical-black-platypus/32/476866_2.png) [@logical-black-platypus](https://community.mymojo.com/u/logical-black-platypus)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2025, 4:53am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cant-seem-to-get-hard-enough-to-penetrate/9222/2 "2025-05-27T04:53:10Z")

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The opposite for me. We recently decided she should spend a couple of nights with her ex - and it has really spiced up our sex life. But I realise not an option for many couples.

Good luck relaxing back into your relationship