I initially subscribed because of trouble keeping it up. I was fine during foreplay but would lose my erection during sex, get into my own head.
I tried pills and mojo and had some success, but still had issues with spectating from time to time.
Recently I was cumming very quickly but have found that the kegel exercises, wax and wane, mindful masturbation and going slower have all helped me. Still not lasting long as I would like and still worry that I am not fulfilling my partners sexual needs sometimes, but it’s a process.
No real question here, just a post for anyone who may be in the same position. As men, sometimes we are expected to be perfect all the time, and we’re not. I’m lucky to have a very understanding partner who has helped me as much as Mojo.
Yes, sometimes I still get in my own head but I know that I’m getting to the right place.
Phase 9, sexual scripts, has given me a new hope that I’ll be back to my best sexual self soon. Lack of confidence in my job and personal life has led me to this position but I’m on my way back to where I want to be sexually. Just wanted to write this down somewhere.