“They take it personally”
workplace-pressure: “Work is chaos and my sex life is feeling it. I can’t get hard. My partner thinks I’m no longer attracted to them.”
“No physical reason found”
new-here: “I really like the new person I’m seeing. For the first time in my life, I can’t stay hard. My urologist can’t find a physical problem.”
I notice it and it’s over
single-and-trying: “The second I feel myself going soft, that’s it. It doesn’t matter how into someone I am, I can’t relax enough to enjoy sex.”
Which story resonates the most?
The last one… it’s been really tricky to date with this issue
All three, I struggle getting into the moment. My mind is always thinking about what she thinks of me. I want to enjoy but I can only think about pleasuring her
All of them. I am always thinking of the destination instead of the journey. Pressed an excuse for when I go soft, blame the alcohol seems to be the most common.
All three resonate with me.
All three are definately me.
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Yeah pretty much all three, maybe the last point a bit more though as it’s one that I’m focussed on
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Yea definitely two of them. Me and my wife have been together for over 10 years so that one didn’t resonate with me.
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Two of these are spot on. Nice to know I’m not alone.
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The third one, and a bit of the second one.
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The 3rd one. The second I feel a little anxious, I begin to go soft.
2nd and 3rd for me. I’ve never felt an actual connection with a girl and the thought of possibly starting a relationship could be throwing me off my game for the first time. I’ve always been pretty reliable in bed
No. I / we still enjoy each other but it does concern me.
Yes. I find that the more I like a new person the more pressure I put on myself
For me #1 and #3. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years. When this issue happens she takes it personal and think I’m not attracted to her anymore. I’m very much still in love and attracted to her.
Third mainly, only recently started noticing myself get stuck in my head