First and third ones, absolutely. It’s worse because my partner is also a man but doesn’t have this issue, so I’m always comparing myself to him.
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A mixture of all 3 - my mind won’t relax and as soon as something doesn’t go as i think about not performing I’m cippled
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No 3 is obvious
I’m with someone new and we haven’t yet and I’m nervous
I love my partner immensely, and it drives me in a worsening loop of trying to please her, worrying I can’t, her taking it as me not being attracted to her, and that making my anxiety and erection problems worse. I just want us both to be ok.
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My erections last for less than 30 seconds without stimulation. With physical stimulation, the situation has to be pretty hot/intense for me to maintain erection and complete sex normally.
I feel not okay
I can generally stay hard for up to 5-10 minutes once inside, but it’s become almost impossible for me to get hard enough to insert
I’ve been struggling with this for 6 years. I started taking tadalafil which was helping but one day the ED and PE came back and I haven’t been able to get away from it since
How much is the course?
Yes the first and third one ring true for me.
Me too, I don’t know how to get out of my head enough yet to not let it comepltely ruin everything
Mostly got the problem if its someone i really like and “need” to impress. And then the down spirale thoughts hitting..
Because it’s happened numerous times, I’m constantly worried about going soft. When the moment arrives with a new partner, I’m so worried about it reoccurring that the anxiety causes me to go soft, and the cycle repeats itself. Every time.
Yes
Third one, I find I am sometimes able to gain an erection before sex with my partner but as soon as there’s a change it spirals before penetration
Third one for sure
All 3
2nd and 3rd
All 3