Omg, we had great sex today and everything worked!
At the age of 56, this year I started to have trouble maintaining an erection and finishing during penetration. I was dreading the idea that I’m just getting old, and decided to first try Cialis/tadalafil. This was moderately successful after several dosage adjustments but I was still having issues half the time. I figured there must be a psychological aspect.
I’ve been using Mojo almost daily for four weeks. The initial lessons were helpful in recognizing spectatoring and realizing I am stuck in my head, worried about losing my erection. I honestly got a little overwhelmed with all of the breathing and meditations I was supposed to employ, and felt that these were just more distractions. Things weren’t going well and I was getting discouraged.
What helped today was using the “erotic bank” of fantasies. I used to think this would keep me from the present moment, but found that it really enhanced things. I was visualizing how thick I was becoming against her inner walls as I was feeling the friction, and had an amazing finish. My wife commented how much bigger I felt, so the fantasy became reality!
Just wanted to put this out there as a bit of encouragement. I’m still using daily Cialis but may eventually test if it’s even necessary after I build up some successes and confidence.