I really struggle with this feeling of upsetting my partner and letting her down. I feel like a failure, she says she’s frustrated with it all and yet she wants to stay with me because she loves me. I want to fix this for us for good so we can have a happy fulfilled relationship. Aside this, we’re so good and I want us to get back to it.
I know the feeling. It’s great that she wants to stay and you guys can be open with each other. Tell her you’re working on it and make her part of the solution (there are partners exercises on here). It’s a health issue like any health issue really.