# First time issues **URL:** \ **Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\ **Created:** [December 12, 2024, 5:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/first-time-issues/8380 "2024-12-12T17:04:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![peculiar-lime-urial](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/peculiar-lime-urial/32/474961_2.png) [@peculiar-lime-urial](https://community.mymojo.com/u/peculiar-lime-urial)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2024, 5:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/first-time-issues/8380/1 "2024-12-12T17:04:06Z")
Back when I was 15 years old I attempted to have sex for the first time. I was unable to get hard and I didn’t understand why. This has created off and on psychological performance issues. I’m 32 now and have had long term relationships with no issues. I can’t seem to shake this permanently though. Did anyone else experience this their first time? ---
**Author:** ![colorful-blush-rook](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7c8e57/32.png) [@colorful-blush-rook](https://community.mymojo.com/u/colorful-blush-rook)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2024, 7:02pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/first-time-issues/8380/2 "2024-12-12T19:02:51Z")
Is it the case that it happens with your first time (or times) with a new partner but fades once you get into a relationship? If so that’s my sitch too. I was with someone aged 15-20, a couple of ONS aged 20, then long term relationship 20-36 (marriage and kids), and new thing just starting age 38. I think the first time with a new partner I’m basically wanting to make a good first impression and get in my own head. Once I’m comfortable and relaxed that goes away and I can just enjoy it. I’m doing Mojo to basically fast track to that headspace. Oddly enough I managed to not get PA a couple of times during a brief period of being single and having ONS as a 20-year-old, but I was probably a lot more body confident then as I’m 60lbs heavier and 18 years older than I was then!