# Holding it in too much

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/holding-it-in-too-much/7672>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [October 4, 2024, 10:24pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/holding-it-in-too-much/7672 "2024-10-04T22:24:11Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 1\
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**Author:** ![strong-rose-beaver](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/strong-rose-beaver/32/414595_2.png) [@strong-rose-beaver](https://community.mymojo.com/u/strong-rose-beaver)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2024, 10:24pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/holding-it-in-too-much/7672/1 "2024-10-04T22:24:11Z")

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Has anyone, had this issue. When starting to have sex, I feel the urge to cum very quickly, so I sort of keep it in. It’s like I have the orgasm without ejaculating. Then, since I sorta orgasmed, I lose my erection going forward. Don’t want to cum to quick because I want to enjoy the moment and make sure I can’t please my women, but then it not any better cause I cannot continue anyways. Sometime I can prevent from ejaculating this way and continue for much longer. Almost seem like I need to find the sweet spot. Anybody has had this happen to them?