# How do you feel now that you’ve completed the porn activities?

**URL:** https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420
**Category:** ❓ Course questions
**Tags:** course-question
**Created:** [December 19, 2024, 1:06pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420 "2024-12-19T13:06:15Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![awake-bronze-parrotfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@awake-bronze-parrotfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/awake-bronze-parrotfish)
#### Post date: [March 21, 2025, 6:43pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/61 "2025-03-21T18:43:18Z")

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To not shame myself for watching it

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### Author: ![full-blush-grasshopper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/8491ac/32.png) [@full-blush-grasshopper](https://community.mymojo.com/u/full-blush-grasshopper)
#### Post date: [March 24, 2025, 4:29am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/62 "2025-03-24T04:29:54Z")

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I’ve come to the conclusion that porn isn’t necessarily bad for you, it’s about what triggers you to watch it and what role it plays in your life. I don’t want to shame myself for watching it, but I’d like to be able to use other techniques (maybe some less visual ones) to have an equally enjoyable experience.

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### Author: ![agricultural-fuchsia-hyena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/47e85d/32.png) [@agricultural-fuchsia-hyena](https://community.mymojo.com/u/agricultural-fuchsia-hyena)
#### Post date: [March 27, 2025, 2:49am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/63 "2025-03-27T02:49:23Z")

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Fine

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### Author: ![spectacular-brown-lizard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bc8723/32.png) [@spectacular-brown-lizard](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spectacular-brown-lizard)
#### Post date: [March 30, 2025, 6:49pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/64 "2025-03-30T18:49:28Z")

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I want to allow myself to use it when I feel the desire to physically. I want to watch porn that I think is ethically produced, and I want to feel free to explore my sexuality without guilt.

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### Author: ![incredible-ivory-tiglon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ecd19e/32.png) [@incredible-ivory-tiglon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/incredible-ivory-tiglon)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2025, 10:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/65 "2025-04-01T22:04:38Z")

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Making porn more of a fun thing than a recipe to quell boredom. Trying to have more active habits vs passive habits that lead to easy mental drifting…

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### Author: ![integral-tomato-toucan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/48db29/32.png) [@integral-tomato-toucan](https://community.mymojo.com/u/integral-tomato-toucan)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2025, 5:40pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/66 "2025-04-03T17:40:55Z")

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Understanding I can watch it for entertainment and not associate climaxes every time with it. Still working on the shame/guilt

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### Author: ![xenacious-scarlet-primate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/b9e5f3/32.png) [@xenacious-scarlet-primate](https://community.mymojo.com/u/xenacious-scarlet-primate)
#### Post date: [April 4, 2025, 2:37pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/67 "2025-04-04T14:37:34Z")

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The main change I’ve made is to be open about talking to my wife about it, only indulging in porn in a way that I feel comfortable sharing, and actually sharing the experience with her too

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### Author: ![long-bronze-gamefowl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9e8a1a/32.png) [@long-bronze-gamefowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/long-bronze-gamefowl)
#### Post date: [April 6, 2025, 1:59am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/68 "2025-04-06T01:59:07Z")

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Im feeling less like watching porn is the problem which has helped minimize the experience and made it more enjoyable.

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### Author: ![awake-bronze-parrotfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@awake-bronze-parrotfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/awake-bronze-parrotfish)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2025, 6:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/69 "2025-04-09T18:34:03Z")

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Make sure to enjoy it

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### Author: ![fuzzy-blush-skunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/919ad9/32.png) [@fuzzy-blush-skunk](https://community.mymojo.com/u/fuzzy-blush-skunk)
#### Post date: [April 13, 2025, 5:48pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/70 "2025-04-13T17:48:52Z")

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I will watch porn more sparingly, if im thinking about hitting a pornsite out of horniness, ill try relying on my imagination, when i feel like it to relieve stress, ill experiment with other stress management techniques. At the same time, ill acknowledge that watching porn is normal and healthy and not feel guilty when i do watch it

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### Author: ![actual-gray-mink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@actual-gray-mink](https://community.mymojo.com/u/actual-gray-mink)
#### Post date: [April 15, 2025, 3:19pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/71 "2025-04-15T15:19:31Z")

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Porn isnt always bad but I should understand my motivation behind it. When I do it, it can be a good additive but I shouldn’t solely rely on it. I also have to continue to work changing my perception on it because I always feel guilt and shame afterwards.

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### Author: ![smiling-sapphire-hawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c4cdca/32.png) [@smiling-sapphire-hawk](https://community.mymojo.com/u/smiling-sapphire-hawk)
#### Post date: [April 28, 2025, 1:03am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/72 "2025-04-28T01:03:25Z")

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I need to understand why I like watching porn

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### Author: ![proud-bronze-koala](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/58f4c7/32.png) [@proud-bronze-koala](https://community.mymojo.com/u/proud-bronze-koala)
#### Post date: [May 1, 2025, 10:23am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/73 "2025-05-01T10:23:32Z")

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These are practical steps to have a more balanced approach to porn such that it does not become the sole source of sexual release

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### Author: ![doubtful-gray-gecko](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/doubtful-gray-gecko/32/417197_2.png) [@doubtful-gray-gecko](https://community.mymojo.com/u/doubtful-gray-gecko)
#### Post date: [May 2, 2025, 10:48am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/74 "2025-05-02T10:48:34Z")

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I realized that I mostly watch it because I am indeed horny, but the issue comes from feeling bad about it afterwards

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### Author: ![appropriate-lime-ox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8baadc/32.png) [@appropriate-lime-ox](https://community.mymojo.com/u/appropriate-lime-ox)
#### Post date: [May 7, 2025, 8:11pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/75 "2025-05-07T20:11:49Z")

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Porn makes my brain lazy, there’s no need to fantasise because it is presented in front of you. I need to restart that imagination.

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### Author: ![sporting-lime-sparrow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@sporting-lime-sparrow](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sporting-lime-sparrow)
#### Post date: [May 10, 2025, 8:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/76 "2025-05-10T08:54:36Z")

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Thinking about why I want to do it and deciding whether that’s actually right for me at that time, or if there are other ways I could be getting the same result.

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### Author: ![proud-bronze-koala](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/58f4c7/32.png) [@proud-bronze-koala](https://community.mymojo.com/u/proud-bronze-koala)
#### Post date: [May 12, 2025, 12:12am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/77 "2025-05-12T00:12:24Z")

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Sometimes I just need an outlet to get rid of sexual tension but if it is being used becaiss I am stressed - I recognized there are other outlets

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### Author: ![binding-amaranth-aardvark](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/binding-amaranth-aardvark/32/426315_2.png) [@binding-amaranth-aardvark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/binding-amaranth-aardvark)
#### Post date: [May 17, 2025, 9:21am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/78 "2025-05-17T09:21:32Z")

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Good to find a balance of not looking at porn as 100% shameful or something I should feel guilty about, whilst also managing my usage of it - maybe relying less on it and more on my imagination/other ways of relieving stress/boredom

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### Author: ![solid-scarlet-toucan](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/solid-scarlet-toucan/32/450347_2.png) [@solid-scarlet-toucan](https://community.mymojo.com/u/solid-scarlet-toucan)
#### Post date: [May 20, 2025, 3:29am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/79 "2025-05-20T03:29:31Z")

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Porn is just another way to entertain oneself and get off. As long as you have a healthy variety of different ways that you masturbate, whether it be fantasizing, audio, and straight up porn, it’s healthy

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### Author: ![proud-bronze-koala](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/58f4c7/32.png) [@proud-bronze-koala](https://community.mymojo.com/u/proud-bronze-koala)
#### Post date: [May 28, 2025, 10:04am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-do-you-feel-now-that-you-ve-completed-the-porn-activities/8420/80 "2025-05-28T10:04:44Z")

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I think r the important thing is that it doesn’t become the sole source of sexual pleasure, and further not to be fixated on one type of porn because then it can impact your sexual life given it probably will not replicate what porn gives

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