Recalling past memories and encounters where I’ve felt really aroused. I have a hard time directing this fantasy though.
I will imagine my girlfriend next to me massaging me or I giving her a massage. Also maybe sexting for a bit but without going fully into it
In real life, paint an image or scenario of something that charges me up… Rinse and repeat
Imagination, fantasising, using every day stimuli like seeing a beautiful woman in the gym or in my day and having a moment with them in my head
I think the most important part is understanding that simmering will build you up but isn’t meant as an instant path to sex, that is the next step that will come naturally, don’t force or push it
I feel like I do this daily
Will hold the kisses for a bit longer and be a bit more affectionate during relaxed moments. Even without the idea this will lead to sex
Long kiss.
She likes being touched so I will simmer her by giving her a rub on the nipple. Then another simmer for me is kiss, a long kiss before and after work will do. Another simmer I want to do is to give her massages as she works very hard as a nurse. So it will be 1) Touch and kissing and compliments through the day
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I feel that we already do this naturally but I’m going to pay more attention to both giving and receiving
Solo
Through sensual massage
Provocative texts throughout the day.
Light complimentary texting that sometimes gets hotter. Longer hello/goodbye kisses
I do this sometimes naturally and my libido is higher as well as my partners
Make more time for compliments and to remind her how hot she is
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All of the above. Doing the work in Mojo is a key first step – to keep my head in the best place so I can show up for her in the best possible ways.
Definitely going to start fantasizing more
Fantasizing would be a good place to start for me
Using my imagination won’t hurt. Mostly I need to tamp ap things up with my wife. It seems like she already understands, and I have been clueless about it.