I was on the couch earlier and was playing with my wife’s tits over her shirt, my cock was getting hard from it but i did not initiate past that. I feel it may lead to more touching later in the evening.
I’m currently single so will try and use imaginations and fantasies to increase my libido
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I see hot women and fantasize about them all the time so making it into an exercise seems pretty easy
When I try this with my partner she tells me to stop. If I wait for her to initiate, it never happens. Then, out of the blue, she asks if I want to make love and I’m thinking “you never show any interest, and now you want to make love?” Total mood killer. I want this so badly. I will have to find a way to talk about it and ask her for this.
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To be fair, this is exactly what my wife has been asking for. Just to feel desired, a bit of flirting. I’ll try it more.
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I plan to stroke my partners thigh while we’re in the car, hold him and play with his butt when we are hugging, and play with his hair when we are sitting on the couch together
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The passionate kiss goodbye or the message about how much I’m into my wife.
I have a similar issue, but it feels like my relationship is on the ropes in a way due to multiple factors. Hope you can come to a resolution and get what you want.
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Play with hair rub back stroke legs
I plan on sending messages and giving nice hugs and kisses.
My theory: she doesn’t yet grasp the idea of simmering, and thinks every approach is an initiation of sex either now or very soon. I suggest show her this topic in the app, and say how it’s just ongoing affection with no expectation or strings attached. Then she may not keep throwing up barriers if she fears you’re always trying to get her in the mood.
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I’m not sure if I’m still desired, so when I talk to my partner about this exercise, that’s going to be a party of the conversation. I do some of these things now, and so does she, but we’ve just been in a bit of a difficult place lately.
Passionate kiss beyond the usual quick peck routine we’ve kind of fallen into.
I unknowingly already simmer quite a bit, so I’m just going to keep doing what I’m doing
I want to do this with someone I feel comfortable with not great to try it with my partner who I’m going through a divorce with
I already do this. I’ll continue to do it but it hasn’t really helped. I still think it should help tho
I have unknowingly done this for quite some time, I guess I should do it more
I do this I just tease her through the day
This is a generally normal thing for me. I often message my girlfriend in this way and she does back. We’re quite flirty in person too. I often fantasise things as well
I will try to do the solo simmering, anything could help so it’s always worth a shot!