How do you plan to simmer?

Use innuendos and jokes I know she likes when we’re tired from our day or from running errands

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Just more of everything, kissing, holding, communicating

Kissing and eye contact

Grabbing her ass or inner thigh…she likes that

Sexy messages throughout the day

Kissing every time, pulling her onto my lap

More kissing & hugging when together. Telling her how much I want her.

My concern with this is that my brain has these desires but that doesn’t manifest physically. I like the idea of simmering but it feels kind of artificial? I will try though.

Telling her I want her. Being attentive to how she likes attention and capitalising on that

Being more assertive and taking control of the situation especially when kissing. Grabbing her really tightly.

I’m not in a relationship now but when I am I’ll make her feel desired without it being automatically a gateway to sex.

I’m going to try to focus on noticing her more like details what is she wearing ect. We also have gotten into habit of watching TV etc without touching. Think I’ll plan on that too. I’m not good with dirty talk , feels unnatural me somehow. Not sure how to work on that.

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Fantasy in my head. In will try

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Being more attentive to the little things she does and showing more effort of how much I desire her

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Thinking about fucking whatever hot ass I can see

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Solo and sometimes with girls

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not quite sure this is how it’s supposed to work?

Touching more throughout the day. Telling her how much I want her

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Engaging in non touching cues like eye contact and etc and just letting the tension rest

Subtle cues that tell your partner you want or desire them. Physical touch or words/deeds/texts. Should simmer good.