# How to overcome this?

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-to-overcome-this/8321>\
**Category:** ⏳ Delayed ejaculation\
**Created:** [December 8, 2024, 1:45am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-to-overcome-this/8321 "2024-12-08T01:45:56Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![brief-moccasin-sloth](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/brief-moccasin-sloth/32/412912_2.png) [@brief-moccasin-sloth](https://community.mymojo.com/u/brief-moccasin-sloth)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2024, 1:45am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-to-overcome-this/8321/1 "2024-12-08T01:45:57Z")

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I struggle with keeping my mind and body in tune with each other when I have sex/foreplay, and all I seem to be focused on is whether I’m going to be able to climax or not. I have no issues in maintaining and getting erect, and I do still feel sensation. Just wanting some advice on what I should do

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**Author:** ![effective-tan-sawfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/49beb7/32.png) [@effective-tan-sawfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/effective-tan-sawfish)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2024, 7:24pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/how-to-overcome-this/8321/2 "2024-12-09T19:24:49Z")

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I’m working through the same thing. I’ve found it helps to focus on all the other great stuff (her body, breathing ,sounds etc) and not on how great my cock feels. It helps me relax, and get more aroused on a mental level (if that makes sense), then my cock naturally follows suit. Early days but it’s been fairly consistent the last little while.