How would you describe your inner critic?

He is me, just standing over my shoulder telling me I need to plan, scheme think about it so I can be the best version of myself, but is more sk saying if don’t succeed, I am a failure I am not worthy,

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My inner critic is me at my worst looking at the worst case senario in every situation always assuming the worst in people.

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It’s actually my dad, projecting his own self image unto me; it’s interesting because he was not an active critic of me, more like a passive observer who has very low concept of himself and expected me to be the same way. It’s tough to realize he’s been achieving some bad stuff in me…

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Although I say it is me it is more likely to be my Dad. The correcting and the assumption of always being right and therefore what I was doing was wrong

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Its a feeling in me sayingb tbh at based on the amount of porn I viewed that I will never find spark with another woman ever again. Like my mind is depleted of dopamine etc.

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My inner critic is myself, but looking for short comings and critical. It is confident in my failures and predicts when i will disappoint myself, both in and out of the bedroom.

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My inner critic is myself, but a smaller version. I feel him always looming and creeping in the background never quite leaving. I would describe it like a fog or haze, as always there cloud in every decision.

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My inner critic is more adult and doesn’t see me as someone that amounts to anything

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My inner critic is a feeling. I feel it’s digging into me. Feelings of intense dread, shame, guilty, and anxiety. It’s like mould. It grows on me and feels like it’s poisoning me slowly but surely.

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Inner critic is my abusive ex girlfriend

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My inner critic is a feeling, one of regret, shame and disappointment in myself.

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It didn’t feel like a surprise that it was a cooler version of me

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A grumpy and drepressed guy who is always ranting about me. It’s basically myself but in a version that I don’t like to feel identified

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Mine is a feeling of shame, sadness and defeat. Not aggressive at all

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My inner critique was the girl I was last seeing that I couldn’t get an erection go, and also myself

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Some of mine is too. Hang in there. Know it’s not your fault. And that you are good enough and deserve to love and be loved. :slight_smile:

For me it’s a feeling a haze. It combines alot from an abusive ex girlfriend of mine and adds in old religious shame I grew up with and such but left years ago. It is questioning if myself and my worth. It is questioning and feeling down that I didn’t give my partner what he wants. It’s a feeling of letting him down, failing him, and failing me. I feel way less than and like of course here you go again. Maybe she’s right. It’s like an internal fight with me reminding myself that that is all bullshit. Beliefs are a choice and I don’t choose to believe that crap anymore. I try to inform it as much as possible which usually works with other things to quiet it, but with sex it’s just different from sexual trauma.

My inner critic is me, already defeated; limp dick no desire not attractive. He gave up and wants me to give up too

My inner critic is me in a panicked state. It’s urgent and stressed, worrying about the dick that is currently in my hand, or worse inside my partner, that appears to be going uncontrollably limp..

My not being able to penetrate my partner due to limo penis. I want a firm erection and to overcome fear which I am working towards