I back out and I’m such a moron for it

🍆 Erection issues
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Was out with the girl I’ve been seeing a month now, 5th date out to a comedy show. As I left her off, we started really kissing each other for a bit still in the car, then she said if I wanted to come back to her place, but chickened out, said I need to get back for a hockey match tomorrow.

I just froze, I didn’t really see the opportunity coming. I didn’t feel 100% as I was a bit tired from work and have already masturbated to porn earlier today (which I really regret now) but still just felt fear of messing up and back out. I feel so stupid. I know it take time to change how you feel and think, but god sake that was stupid of me.

Has anyone else felt like this? Feeling all good, working at the exercises but when the opportunity is there you just freeze? Feel like a failure and making this a blocker issue in continuing the relationship with her

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You just need to do it on the next date. Tell her in advance you’d like to do X and ask her if she’d like to come back to your place before to avoid the surprise.

Whenever they want to go back to your place it’s on.

As soon as you break the ice you’ll be good. She’s into you.

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