# I can get it up but it doesn’t stay up longer than 5 minutes

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-can-get-it-up-but-it-doesn-t-stay-up-longer-than-5-minutes/6925>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [July 29, 2024, 3:36pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-can-get-it-up-but-it-doesn-t-stay-up-longer-than-5-minutes/6925 "2024-07-29T15:36:40Z")\
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**Author:** ![military-indigo-lemming](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/military-indigo-lemming/32/467029_2.png) [@military-indigo-lemming](https://community.mymojo.com/u/military-indigo-lemming)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2024, 3:36pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-can-get-it-up-but-it-doesn-t-stay-up-longer-than-5-minutes/6925/1 "2024-07-29T15:36:40Z")

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I’m 20. Whenever I have sex (and sometimes when I masturbate) after about 5 minutes I start to get softer, it’s definitely not because I’m turned off! Because I’m really not! I don’t feel like it’s because I’m anxious or worried about the situation because I’ve never done one night stands before, it’s always been someone I’ve known and/or trusted and I’ve recently starting dating someone, yet to have sex but I don’t want (whenever it may be) our first time to be embarrassing or a let down. Help anyone?