# I have a week to get this right **URL:** \ **Category:** šŸ† Erection issues\ **Created:** [May 30, 2024, 10:26pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186 "2024-05-30T22:26:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![frantic-gold-fish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/frantic-gold-fish/32/437758_2.png) [@frantic-gold-fish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/frantic-gold-fish)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2024, 10:26pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/1 "2024-05-30T22:26:12Z")
Iā€™m only a little less than a week into this course. Iā€™m trying to do all the exercises to the best of my ability and read the literature. It all sounds good and feels good, like in my head itā€™s going to work. The girl Iā€™ve been seeing for 3 months comes back from vacation June 7th. I know sheā€™s going to want to hook up on the 8th. I want to say Iā€™m ready and Iā€™ll be able to keep an erection. Iā€™m really battling my inner critic right now. My battle is I can feel her impatience and I know that another 1-2 times of me not keeping an erection could be the death of the relationship. Iā€™m going to follow the plan and just would like some positive reinforcement from the group, prayers, etc. thank you and may your issues be resolved and solved. šŸ˜ ---
**Author:** ![sacred-lime-planarian](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/sacred-lime-planarian/32/438752_2.png) [@sacred-lime-planarian](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sacred-lime-planarian)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2024, 10:40pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/2 "2024-05-30T22:40:03Z")
Youā€™ve got this, and in the unlikely case you donā€™t try to take a deep breath and talk to her. If itā€™s meant to be she will understand. ---
**Author:** ![inquisitive-beige-tarantula](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/inquisitive-beige-tarantula/32/440352_2.png) [@inquisitive-beige-tarantula](https://community.mymojo.com/u/inquisitive-beige-tarantula)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2024, 11:41pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/3 "2024-05-30T23:41:58Z")
This is a lot of pressure to put on yourself, and I worry that youā€™ll end up not enjoying the hook up no matter what happens. If she isnā€™t interested in being with you if you canā€™t stay hard, then maybe she isnā€™t the right one? ---
**Author:** ![associated-indigo-mockingbird](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/associated-indigo-mockingbird/32/438415_2.png) [@associated-indigo-mockingbird](https://community.mymojo.com/u/associated-indigo-mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 2:44am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/4 "2024-05-31T02:44:06Z")
Go into the night with sex off the table. Tell yourself itā€™s not going to happen. Not tonight! Itā€™s just the bond between you. If it happens it happens but trying to plan it will ruin it. ---
**Author:** ![clear-crimson-ant](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/clear-crimson-ant/32/206612_2.png) [@clear-crimson-ant](https://community.mymojo.com/u/clear-crimson-ant)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 2:47am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/5 "2024-05-31T02:47:02Z")
I have been in this situation and trust me the pressure and puttting a deadline doesnā€™t help. Instead think of just having a good time. If it happens well and good, if it doesnt its not the end of the world. The worst that can happen is she will leave you and if thats the case then better sooner rather than later. You will atleast be a step ahead in this journey if you face this situation with ease. Just stay calm and dont take this too seriously and all will be wellšŸ˜€ ---
**Author:** ![rubber-scarlet-lizard](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/rubber-scarlet-lizard/32/438646_2.png) [@rubber-scarlet-lizard](https://community.mymojo.com/u/rubber-scarlet-lizard)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 3:51am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/6 "2024-05-31T03:51:37Z")
You got this, man! Sheā€™s going to wish she came back from vacation sooner! ---
**Author:** ![impressive-cyan-louse](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/impressive-cyan-louse/32/425569_2.png) [@impressive-cyan-louse](https://community.mymojo.com/u/impressive-cyan-louse)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 4:10am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/7 "2024-05-31T04:10:00Z")
If I was in this position I would most likely not get an erection but Iā€™d instead go into it with the intention to pleasure her and ask her what she wants being open about your issue so you can have the time to continue to work on it. If you make her cum without your dick, sheā€™s far more likely to stick around till you can give it to her ---
**Author:** ![frantic-gold-fish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/frantic-gold-fish/32/437758_2.png) [@frantic-gold-fish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/frantic-gold-fish)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 6:12am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/8 "2024-05-31T06:12:43Z")
Thanks! Well the last time I was over I licked her so good she came three times. And they werenā€™t fakings as my face had the proof. Maybe Iā€™m honestly exaggerating or making a bigger deal out of it. I need to just relax and figure out overall how to get out of my head whether sex happens or not. Thank you for the support ---
**Author:** ![frantic-gold-fish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/frantic-gold-fish/32/437758_2.png) [@frantic-gold-fish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/frantic-gold-fish)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 6:13am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/9 "2024-05-31T06:13:51Z")
Thank you! I appreciate your expertise and experience. Iā€™ll try my best to just have fun and not go into the day/night to have sex. I just want to figure out how to get out of my head whether sex is on the table or not. I really like her and donā€™t wanna blow it. But oh well right?!? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![frantic-gold-fish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/frantic-gold-fish/32/437758_2.png) [@frantic-gold-fish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/frantic-gold-fish)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 6:15am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/10 "2024-05-31T06:15:36Z")
I agree with you. I couldnā€™t believe that I literally didnā€™t feel much of anything. Thereā€™s no way I didnā€™t feel sensations but was so in my head that it was like an out of body experience. I need to just enjoy the moment and being with her. And if sex is attempted and fails or succeeds to just enjoy the intimacy & moment. Life happens and itā€™s how I react to it more than what actually happens; thanks a lot. ---
**Author:** ![frantic-gold-fish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/frantic-gold-fish/32/437758_2.png) [@frantic-gold-fish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/frantic-gold-fish)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 6:16am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/11 "2024-05-31T06:16:25Z")
I think thatā€™s a great idea. Thank you. I need to just enjoy being with her. Thatā€™s a small part of the pie. I did make her cum three times from oral. ---
**Author:** ![elaborate-indigo-alligator](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/elaborate-indigo-alligator/32/399984_2.png) [@elaborate-indigo-alligator](https://community.mymojo.com/u/elaborate-indigo-alligator)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 7:36am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/12 "2024-05-31T07:36:33Z")
I feel you man, I had some hotties with me while I was touching them, but somehow my body just ainā€™t aroused ---
**Author:** ![brief-aquamarine-lemming](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/brief-aquamarine-lemming/32/397308_2.png) [@brief-aquamarine-lemming](https://community.mymojo.com/u/brief-aquamarine-lemming)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2024, 6:25pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/13 "2024-05-31T18:25:51Z")
Man if she leaves you because you donā€™t have an erection she is not for youā€¦ and Look at polls and statistics. Most of the time women do not judge men badly when they have ED. They either blame themselves or try to help ther man. Work on your sex skills. Finger her. Play with her clit. Treat her well. Sleep beside her. Do mindfulness. Massage. And your erection will come back naturally if you and your girl give yourself time. Donā€™t be in a rush when you see her. Try to see her a whole weekend for example ---
**Author:** ![specified-aquamarine-cobra](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/specified-aquamarine-cobra/32/441901_2.png) [@specified-aquamarine-cobra](https://community.mymojo.com/u/specified-aquamarine-cobra)\ **Post date:** [June 2, 2024, 9:58am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-have-a-week-to-get-this-right/6186/14 "2024-06-02T09:58:28Z")
I needed to read this. Trying to believe the other person when they say want to talk about it (so hard to believe anyone wants to talk about it) and enjoying the intimacy no matter what is where I am at now.