I should add that I’ve experienced having a strap on used on me by other women as well and they both had never done it before. They both enjoyed it and you could tell they got turned on by the reversal. My gf though is 50/50. Sometimes it turns her on but other times not at all.
I like watching tg porn too and I love Jade venus and femboys
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Wish I had a male friend I could confide in to experience it but I accept it’s not really a possibility at this time lol
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Same here but with trans, passable shemales. Never been attracted to them. Started with cartoons and 3D AI. Now I find myself thinking of it more. Hella confused because who could see this coming at 40. At first it was very rare and only when i masturbated. Fast forward a few years and don’t even have to be in the mood to consider it. I’m close to meeting up with someone I’ve been communicating with
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I can understand that. I didn’t start thinking about taking about taking a dick until my late twenties or early 30’s but only while using a toy(which was also new) or jerking off. And I had to be in a specific mood and it wasn’t common. Now I’m 41 and I’d go for it pretty much whenever.
I absolutely do not want to sound critical, so apologies up front if this sounds it–that is not my intent. Here’s the thing I have noticed. Starting with the title of your post (“not a gay”), and the dialog throughout, I get the vibe that oodles of men are really afraid of “gay.”. Even if they like dick, or passive anal sex. It’s sad, because they are wound up by society’s collective perceptions of a thing that isn’t even a thing. It is a biological reaction. There isn’t such a thing as a gay. Gay men have only one thing in common, and that is an attraction to one (or more) male physical traits. I know some guys who aren’t into dick all that much, but are thrilled at the sight of a sculpted male ass. Just like some guys are tit guys! My only advice on this topic is to ignore everything you have ever heard or learned about homosexuals, or about “what” gay men are, how they behave, or anything else. Accept only that within you, there is some part of you that is attracted to some physical elements of men. That’s it. It wasn’t “caused” by porn, or by masturbation, or by any external things. If that were true, conversion therapy would work, and there would be a lot of “gays” switching teams…not many people want the social stigma and outright hatred directed at them for their sexual and/or romantic attractions. In conclusion, enjoy your self-discovery, enjoy new experiences, let yourself go, and experience true internal freedom. Hope that isn’t critical-took me 30 years to realize all this, and thank God I did. I haven’t looked back once!
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I have something I need to rant about. I love my gf but sometimes I feel we aren’t on the same page sexually. I’ve always been very open about my sexuality with her. And she’s used a strap on on me and all that but it’s not her favorite thing and I even feel uncomfortable asking her to do that most of the time if not all the time. Lately I’ve felt so closed up and I’ve been wanting to be used so badly. Even the thought of just turning a guy on by showing off my ass is something I’ve been craving.i don’t even know where to go to do that or anything. I’m just ranting mainly. It’s upsetting.
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I’m not gay but I been wanting to dominate a guy
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Theirs nothing wrong with that
I been feeling the same way bro
It’s an odd situation and not fully the same cuz you want to dominate and I want the opposite lol but yes it’s still frustrating
Basically, you’re desire to dominate a guy would fill my desire lol
As a gay man, I’ve had a fair amount of sex with straight men. It’s just about relaxing and being open minded. I’ve had guys cum in minutes after getting their assess eaten out or have their prostrate played with. Get out of your head what’s “gay”, and learn about your body.
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Wish we were friends lol
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Me too.
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I’d let you explore my body lol as friends
I’d love to. 
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Eat and penetrate my bussy lol
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You can use Grindr, Scruff or Hornet to privately find a guy. You don’t need to put a face pic up, but at least a pic of some part of you (not an nsfw part…) and definitely fill out your stats, else a blank profile is creepy and guys stay away. You can share a face pic when you start a private chat with someone. Flirt a little, or do more if you’re tempted. See how it goes…
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I love to eat bussy. And fuck you? You been fucked before? What all have you done with a guy? Fantasy?
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