I managed to dodge my internal sabateur!

Iโ€™ve recently gotten into my first actual relationship and was struggling to stay hard with them. Iโ€™ve had countless hookups and have never had a problem with keeping my erection, but since I started this relationship, every time we would get steamy and the attention was on me, I would get soft. I brushed it off and took care of him instead, but I never really mentioned what was going on. Ever since that first time, I became super aware of my erection, and would keep thinking about staying hard, which would just make me soft. Iโ€™ve been using this app, and the sensate focus really helped me to really focus on the sensations when he was touching me. My mind did wander sometimes to become aware of my erection, but I just kept bringing it back to the physical sensations of him touching me, or vice versa. I managed to keep my erection and cum!

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