# I need help with this **URL:** \ **Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\ **Created:** [December 5, 2025, 6:24pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-need-help-with-this/12698 "2025-12-05T18:24:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![apparent-gray-boar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7ba0ec/32.png) [@apparent-gray-boar](https://community.mymojo.com/u/apparent-gray-boar)\ **Post date:** [December 5, 2025, 6:24pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-need-help-with-this/12698/1 "2025-12-05T18:24:27Z")
Long story short I am 29 and haven’t lost virginity (rip). I really struggle with getting hard when I am getting intimate… I know it’s the anxiety as I can get hard alone. I had a girl spend the weekend with me and while there were times I was able to get hard I completely lost the erection when putting the condom on. Seeing her in about 40 days and need to make sure this doesn’t happen again… advise greatly appreciated it. ---
**Author:** ![geographical-aquamarine-sailfish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/geographical-aquamarine-sailfish/32/349447_2.png) [@geographical-aquamarine-sailfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/geographical-aquamarine-sailfish)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2025, 4:56pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-need-help-with-this/12698/2 "2025-12-06T16:56:39Z")
Honestly try a tadifil/cialis. Can give you a little boost. ---
**Author:** ![advanced-green-cardinal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5daacb/32.png) [@advanced-green-cardinal](https://community.mymojo.com/u/advanced-green-cardinal)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2025, 9:02pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-need-help-with-this/12698/3 "2025-12-06T21:02:57Z")
Explore fantasies each day. Different ways to fuck her, go down on her, etc. it will help build confidence and build up your mojo