# I’ve struggled with getting erections during sex since a I lost my virginity but now I can’t have sex at all **URL:** \ **Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\ **Created:** [April 20, 2024, 7:23pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801 "2024-04-20T19:23:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![brief-coffee-catfish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/brief-coffee-catfish/32/407413_2.png) [@brief-coffee-catfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/brief-coffee-catfish)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2024, 7:23pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801/1 "2024-04-20T19:23:50Z")
Well I’m 23 years old within the last four years I’ve tried to have sex on five different occasions and all five times I couldn’t get it up I’ve tried just about every method from dietary supplements to viagra pumps and nothing seems to work I’m also confused because I don’t wake up with erections either so I don’t really know if it’s psychological or something else is preventing me to get erections hard enough to have sex now my confidence is at an all time low please help ---
**Author:** ![impressive-cyan-louse](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/impressive-cyan-louse/32/425569_2.png) [@impressive-cyan-louse](https://community.mymojo.com/u/impressive-cyan-louse)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2024, 7:49pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801/2 "2024-04-20T19:49:29Z")
Do you masturbate? ---
**Author:** ![hadi-mojo](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/hadi-mojo/32/399592_2.png) [@hadi-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/hadi-mojo)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2024, 10:58pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801/3 "2024-04-20T22:58:57Z")
Hey there, it might be worth chatting with a urologist just to get a better understanding of if it’s psychological or physical. Once you’ve got that information from a doctor you can be more confident about the next step to take which will give you a lot more hope. ---
**Author:** ![brief-coffee-catfish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/brief-coffee-catfish/32/407413_2.png) [@brief-coffee-catfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/brief-coffee-catfish)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2024, 12:00am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801/4 "2024-04-21T00:00:03Z")
Yes I’ve been watching porn for about 10 plus years now ---
**Author:** ![considerable-green-primate](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/considerable-green-primate/32/425691_2.png) [@considerable-green-primate](https://community.mymojo.com/u/considerable-green-primate)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2024, 3:44am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801/5 "2024-04-21T03:44:25Z")
Quit porn for 90 days ---
**Author:** ![key-scarlet-hawk](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/key-scarlet-hawk/32/412604_2.png) [@key-scarlet-hawk](https://community.mymojo.com/u/key-scarlet-hawk)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2024, 8:41am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801/6 "2024-04-21T08:41:00Z")
Might go to the doctor for this one boss ---
**Author:** ![useful-bronze-alpaca](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/useful-bronze-alpaca/32/265700_2.png) [@useful-bronze-alpaca](https://community.mymojo.com/u/useful-bronze-alpaca)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2024, 9:24am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/i-ve-struggled-with-getting-erections-during-sex-since-a-i-lost-my-virginity-but-now-i-can-t-have-sex-at-all/5801/7 "2024-04-21T09:24:52Z")
Have you tried abstaining from masturbation itself, with myself I’ve realised that after about 3 weeks my morning erections came back and some sort sec drive kicks in.