It might work now, but what if it doesn’t ahen it matters
This is stupid is what it says
I took some desensitizing cream beforehand and it really helped and felt weird bc I wasn’t in pain!
My inner critic said that doing this was somehow going to break the progress I had been making recently.
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The penis is weird. Sensations come and go at will.
Initially, it said that my penis is small when soft. I quickly countered that I’m good at pleasuring my partner, what does my flaccid penis size really matter.
Kept saying why and how he hates that he can never get hard
Kept saying how I can’t get hard when I’m with someone else, only when I’m alone
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my IC was telling me to be insecure about the size of my flaccid penis, even though any person i’ve been with has never had an issue with it. i need to learn to ignore my IC and be comfortable with myself and my body
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I realized that the pressure I put onto my penis is exactly the pressure I put onto myself. Is the same inner critic that demands the best performance always without excuses.
My Inner Critic kept worrying that I wasn’t get hard when I was touching myself. Kept worrying that I was leaning it was ok to not get hard which might make it more difficult to get hard later. It wanted me to link touch to getting hard.
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I feel like I had this baseline level of anxiety I woke up with just because I’ve been quite tired in the mornings and that makes me stressed out, but I didn’t hear a negative voice in my head while doing this exercise. I feel like this is the first step towards restoring the trust I’ve lost in my penis.
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I actually find my soft penis pretty nice looking and cute and don’t have an issue personally playing with it and touching it and seeing it. However, I feel like a lot of times when I’m with a woman it’s actually HER who is concerned that a penis should never be soft, and will kind of anxiously try to make it hard really quickly.
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Just a little insulting really. How could anyone like you, etc. why aren’t you getting hard. Almost taunting?
I immediately got hard and continued the exercise anyways.
What an ugly dick
I found it relaxing and wasn‘t harsh on me. I even was about to get hard but then got soft again. In that moment I was a bit critical. But then I relaxed again because the exercise was just about exploring my soft penis.
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I didn’t hear my inner critic, lookin’ at myself soft like that actually felt really natural and it was a cool exercise. I second what someone else said that women sometimes don’t like seeing a soft dick, they just wanna see it huge and hard all the time, and that’s just not realistic. This exercise felt really empowering for me. I love my dick.
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My inner critic was feeding a sense of shame that I need to do this exercise in the first class,that I’m somehow inferior and inadequate because I need to do such work to alleviate my performance anxiety.
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It felt kind of hollow. I was holding my penis with no energy inside of it. No spark.