I’m realizing now that I’m addicted to masturbation.. having done it since i was 12 years old. Porn is just a part of that, i can go without it but little do i realize how often i actually need it. I know my brain is trying to hide my real problem from me.
I watch porn purely for the dopamine surge while masturbating.
I know I have a problem because I watch it or look at it very frequently each day.
It is literally a drug for me and I get my “fix” often.
I feel porn has messed up my sex life and rewired my brain to what turns me on. Apparently the brain can be rewired, God I hope so.
I watch porn mainly out of habit, my dopamine receptors feel fried and every morning and night without fault I watch it kind of almost like in a trance. It’s followed by much shame and guilt
Feeling particularly disassociated with porn lately. Not only do I feel like I’ve been watching it too much but lately porn itself feels uninterest and unsatisfying. Also find that it’s taking me out of my body during actual sex
Probably that a life with no porn is probably not achievable, but also that it often isn’t about the porn but the need for distraction and stimulation
Constantly stumbling upon pornography on social media gives me the dopamine hit. And I feel it’s affecting the intimacy between me and my wife
Been single for a very long time and feel like porn is an easier access to sexuality and comfort compared to dating and relationships
I think I’ve failed previously because it does not seem like I have an alternative method of quick relief that acts the same
I’m defeated, I simply do not have the willpower to not use it. It’s a quick dopamine hit, even if that hit is barely anything now.
i get horny and then justify why it’s okay to watch it again
Porn is such an integrated part of my life right now. I don’t even know if I ever could stop.
I use it as an escape, a coping mechanism, a way to deal with difficult feelings and emotions. When I’m feeling stressed that’s when I’m most prone to relapse
For me I can watch it throughout the day but i notice I’m bored I’m
Not really doing anything else productive.. if I was it’s not a thought.
Recently quit porn for 2+ months. Around this time I’m a bit of a mess emotionally. Is it linked to? Should I start again
Porn gives me a dopamine hit and it’s reducing the amount of effort I put into initiating sex with my partner
sexual stimulation, a dopamine hit, novelty, emotional regulation, and marking transitions throughout my day. When I’ve returned to porn in the past, it’s usually been because I was seeking one of those things. After relying on it for so many years, it’s become my default response to a range of different needs.
I would stop watching for 60+ days, feel great about myself and then watch the most horrible stuff out there and feel depressed.
Become so used to masterbating over porn I can do it quickly which then means my sex is also
Same. You’re not alone.