# Inconsistent consistency

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/inconsistent-consistency/15307>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [May 19, 2026, 9:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inconsistent-consistency/15307 "2026-05-19T21:51:37Z")\
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**Author:** ![accepted-plum-iguana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5e925/32.png) [@accepted-plum-iguana](https://community.mymojo.com/u/accepted-plum-iguana)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2026, 9:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inconsistent-consistency/15307/1 "2026-05-19T21:51:37Z")

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I am a 25 yr old active male who has had a girlfriend for 2 years. The past 7 months I had really struggled with erections and making sure I can have sex. When I do manage it I notice that my confidence is high and the next few days I can do it. If however I don’t see her for a week or 2 I struggle to get it up as I can sense there is pressure on performing. I am now really thinking about the possibilities of medication but I don’t want to become reliant on it which I feel like could happen. My girlfriend is amazing and is supportive but I know subconsciously it frustrates her and it is so demoralising and borderline depressing. I notice an instant mood switch.

There’s time with the playful action before I’m hard but when it acc gets to the deed it’s like I freeze and just loose my erection and can’t get it back.

Any help, advice or general feedback would be much appreciated.

Cheers