# Just when I needed it

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/just-when-i-needed-it/8035>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [November 10, 2024, 6:09pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/just-when-i-needed-it/8035 "2024-11-10T18:09:32Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 1\
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**Author:** ![atomic-cyan-pony](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/97f17d/32.png) [@atomic-cyan-pony](https://community.mymojo.com/u/atomic-cyan-pony)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2024, 6:09pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/just-when-i-needed-it/8035/1 "2024-11-10T18:09:32Z")

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I had a chance last night to have a threesome with a friend and my husband, and just couldn’t get hard at all. During all the flirting and foreplay all evening I’d been hard as a rock in my pants, but as soon as it came time to actually do something about it, nothing. I laughed it off, put it down to the cocktails I’d had (barely any) and found ways to enjoy it anyway (I bottomed, which I don’t usually do) but I’m really frustrated that I couldn’t participate how I wanted despite how much I was into it. And now any mention of sex or anything vaguely erotic just feels like a reminder of what I can’t do. I feel awful.