# Losing some when she gets on top

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-some-when-she-gets-on-top/8047>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [November 11, 2024, 2:38pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-some-when-she-gets-on-top/8047 "2024-11-11T14:38:14Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![neutral-scarlet-mink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@neutral-scarlet-mink](https://community.mymojo.com/u/neutral-scarlet-mink)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2024, 2:38pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-some-when-she-gets-on-top/8047/1 "2024-11-11T14:38:14Z")

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For some reason of another I am losing some rigidity when she takes the lead and I am on my back. I am finding this particularly stressful because it clearly made her feel embrassed (when this is more of a me issue). I want her in this position so badly to connect with our eyes, to admire her gorgeous body and to share the control without always being on top. Has anyone else had this issue and is it just me?

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**Author:** ![complete-gold-swift](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@complete-gold-swift](https://community.mymojo.com/u/complete-gold-swift)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2024, 9:22pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-some-when-she-gets-on-top/8047/2 "2024-11-11T21:22:45Z")

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I have also had this issue. You’re not alone. I really haven’t found a solution. Sometimes I’ll be hard as a rock with her on top and others we can’t even have sex

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**Author:** ![sunny-red-badger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/898d66/32.png) [@sunny-red-badger](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sunny-red-badger)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2024, 9:51pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-some-when-she-gets-on-top/8047/3 "2024-11-11T21:51:09Z")

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That has also happened to me. Still new in the app so hoping this helps with that. Felt exactly the same way.

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**Author:** ![striped-apricot-dolphin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/edb3f5/32.png) [@striped-apricot-dolphin](https://community.mymojo.com/u/striped-apricot-dolphin)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2024, 11:12pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-some-when-she-gets-on-top/8047/4 "2024-11-11T23:12:30Z")

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Definitely have this challenge too. My ED started with a freak injury when I slipped out of woman who was on top of me and she sort of landed wrong and bent my penis. Physically healed but there’s mental scar tissue that pops up getting into that position. I know if I don’t rush it it will be ok but then I want to rush it and get her on top. I breathe. I notice her body. We enjoy other simple positions

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**Author:** ![neutral-scarlet-mink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@neutral-scarlet-mink](https://community.mymojo.com/u/neutral-scarlet-mink)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2024, 11:38pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/losing-some-when-she-gets-on-top/8047/5 "2024-11-11T23:38:39Z")

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It’s weird because it has been a while since a gf wanted to be on top so I am also a little rusty on the position…but this one is so different and completely comfortable with it.