# Mental Block and Can’t get out… **URL:** \ **Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\ **Created:** [September 6, 2024, 5:15am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/mental-block-and-can-t-get-out/7334 "2024-09-06T05:15:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lovely-maroon-termite](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/lovely-maroon-termite/32/484781_2.png) [@lovely-maroon-termite](https://community.mymojo.com/u/lovely-maroon-termite)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2024, 5:15am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/mental-block-and-can-t-get-out/7334/1 "2024-09-06T05:15:56Z")
I’m 24 y/o healthy man, I’ve had sex with my gf before but sometimes I worry that I won’t get hard because for the first three months we were dating I couldn’t get hard and she almost left me. I’ve had the problem where I don’t get hard for the first 1-3 times with my old gf’s but after that it was smooth sailing and never had the problem. With my current new gf we’ve been having sex for a few months now but the last 2 weeks I’ve been overthinking and worrying that I won’t get hard. And then I don’t. And she thinks it’s happening all over again and gives up on trying because she thinks it will be a waste of time and I won’t get hard. I explain this has never been an on going issue for me and it’s all new… I’m incredibly attracted to her and we’ve talked about it but I worry that the next time we try to have sex again I won’t get hard and she will get mad at me for wasting her time… ---
**Author:** ![continental-orange-tern](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/continental-orange-tern/32/362939_2.png) [@continental-orange-tern](https://community.mymojo.com/u/continental-orange-tern)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2024, 5:51am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/mental-block-and-can-t-get-out/7334/2 "2024-09-06T05:51:14Z")
Focus on boosting your arrousal meditation series. You are still in the begining of the anxiety cycle , you need to stop it now, 24 y okd your libido is super high, you are healthy, believe in you body not your mind. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![active-white-ant](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/active-white-ant/32/482913_2.png) [@active-white-ant](https://community.mymojo.com/u/active-white-ant)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2024, 3:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/mental-block-and-can-t-get-out/7334/3 "2024-09-08T03:54:56Z")
Yes, check meditation series man! There are really powerful ones. Do all of them…