# New partner anxiety

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-partner-anxiety/5781>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [April 17, 2024, 2:13am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-partner-anxiety/5781 "2024-04-17T02:13:58Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![statistical-plum-damselfly](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/statistical-plum-damselfly/32/421484_2.png) [@statistical-plum-damselfly](https://community.mymojo.com/u/statistical-plum-damselfly)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2024, 2:13am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-partner-anxiety/5781/1 "2024-04-17T02:13:58Z")

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I never had issues before this year Everything’s great with my erections until the point of penetration recently got a new partner and it’s now happened 3 times with her

It’s definitely not her looks or anything she does sexually that’s all great I’m not sure if it’s because I’m nervous about her because she’s quite a bit more experienced then I am or what it is

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**Author:** ![unlikely-coffee-mackerel](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/unlikely-coffee-mackerel/32/424466_2.png) [@unlikely-coffee-mackerel](https://community.mymojo.com/u/unlikely-coffee-mackerel)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2024, 10:17pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/new-partner-anxiety/5781/2 "2024-04-17T22:17:02Z")

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I have the exact same problem. I have an all-star girlfriend. She’s hot, she’s experienced and she’s always down to bang. She intimidates me, to be quite honest. I get soft during foreplay or I can’t get it up sometimes and it makes her very self conscious. I feel like a jackass and I’m here to fix my problem. It’s all in my head. I find that when I’m feeling super confident and relaxed at the same time is when I have good enjoyable sex. If I’m not confident or I’m nervous, I can’t get it up.

Good luck, man. I hope you and I can get our issues fixed.