# Not anxious and can’t get hard

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/not-anxious-and-can-t-get-hard/6843>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [July 22, 2024, 2:09pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/not-anxious-and-can-t-get-hard/6843 "2024-07-22T14:09:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![quarrelsome-salmon-alpaca](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/quarrelsome-salmon-alpaca/32/464350_2.png) [@quarrelsome-salmon-alpaca](https://community.mymojo.com/u/quarrelsome-salmon-alpaca)\
**Post date:** [July 22, 2024, 2:09pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/not-anxious-and-can-t-get-hard/6843/1 "2024-07-22T14:09:52Z")

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I have tried to have sex multiple times now and 90% of the time I have failed to get hard. it’s hard to understand as I will be keen and getting into it but my dick is asleep. I enjoy all the touching and the sexual advances that happen from these interactions, and can get hard on my own no worries. It gotten to the point where I avoid these interactions or the possibility of them for the mentioned issues. I always feel like I’m alone in this, as all my mates and friends seem to go out and get with chicks no worries and they don’t understand. I also find that my sex drive is like a roller coaster, for months I will barely be horny enough to get hard and then there will be months where I’m constantly horny. I don’t know 1 millions problems and 1 app to try to solve them, I hope someone can relate or has advice on what I can do either medically like go see if I have low testosterone or something, or even pills that can increase your sex drive. Either talk me into it or out of it. Sorry for rambling.

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**Author:** ![spatial-rose-falcon](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/spatial-rose-falcon/32/406487_2.png) [@spatial-rose-falcon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spatial-rose-falcon)\
**Post date:** [July 22, 2024, 2:25pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/not-anxious-and-can-t-get-hard/6843/2 "2024-07-22T14:25:10Z")

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I totally relate bro it’s like my dick just has no desire to get hard as much as I want to it’s not even about performance anxiety anymore it’s just like an inability to react to sex like I used to I can get hard on my own and wake up with boners but my dick just doesn’t stay hard during sex anymore it’s tough

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**Author:** ![anon31851492](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3ec8ea/32.png) [@anon31851492](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon31851492)\
**Post date:** [July 22, 2024, 6:52pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/not-anxious-and-can-t-get-hard/6843/3 "2024-07-22T18:52:56Z")

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I have the same issue, I have an appointment booked this Thursday, blood test can test for testosterone levels, I don’t always wake up hard it happens like twice a week. My girlfriend says let’s not make an issue out of it, but it is becoming an issue for me.