I have been on the app now for about 3-4 months, unfortunately none of my issues seem to resolved or even slightly improved. I’m gutted as had really high hopes when trying mojo after reading so many success stories. I don’t know what else I could done differently or what else I can do to try and sort my issues. Has anyone else struggled with no success?
If it’s been going on for years, don’t expect quick progress from an app. I did the physical check-up, nothing wrong physically, so I had to accept it’s mental and that this is a slow grind. What helped me was consistency and being honest about tiny wins instead of only measuring “perfect sex.” If you’re doing the exercises properly and still feel stuck, it might just mean you need more time. And if after a solid, consistent stretch there’s genuinely no change, then I’d look into one-on-one therapy, the app can only take you so far.
I have tried hypnotherapy before as I read good things about it, but it didn’t work. My issue has been going on for a few years now, but it’s frustrating because sometimes when my wife and I try to have everything works fine, but I can’t seem to make me remember those times, it’s always the times when it hasn’t worked that stick in my memory. It’s just frustrating, disappointing and mentally draining constantly thinking about it, as a lot of the day I spend thinking about having sex with my wife, but then when the time evening comes, we don’t do anything, although part of that is done to always being tired and also a bad routine with the kids bedtime. Just feel stuck in a rut and can’t seem to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Sorry for going on and posting an essay
I suppose it depends on the issues you are having… Mojo really helped me…. But I need a “top up” now and again.
I know 100%, absolutely, undoubtedly, it was ALL in my head… so many of life’s issues are psychological, especially when emotions are involved. Please believe in the process… give it another go… it does take time…
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Yep… been there… to put it bluntly… i felt like “I was only as good as my last Fcuk”…
And anything before, was lost.. and of course…. That is nonsense… but it hung over me for days…. Bringing me down….
But…. I think that is catastrophising… and Mojo can help bring perspective.
Also goimg over it again and again … ruminating… tiring and bloody stupid…but… I did it…
Breathing exercises and faith in yourself… will get you through… (and im saying this to myself… at the same time)
Maybe it’s better not to look for light at the end of the tunnel… focus on the here and now… it’s a journey.. (again, saying this to myself as well)
I try to relax, breathe.. take the pressure off myself.. it’s not perfect, but it’s getting better.. really… keep the faith..,
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Hey buddy! I remember trying Mojo 2 years ago, when I still had my ex-gf. Didn’t really help back then as I was putting too much pressure on myself, even tho I was trying to do the exercises thoroughly. Now, I am in a different headspace, single and probably about to have sex soon, and I tried it again..with more outcome-independence. And for some reason it’s working just fine..
Of course, I am not telling u to divorce ur wife. But maybe u expect too much? Negative experiences during sex can really weigh u down - weeks after. And thinking worse of urself and stressing urself out for some subconscious belief about real masculinity=always ready can really prevent u from seeing results. Not saying u do that, but I’ve been there.
Wishing u only the best! Hang in there!
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It’s strange, as like I said I take 5mg of tadalafil a day, and I also started taking L-citrulline and L-arginine which both apparently help with blood flow and whilst taking all that I have noticed blood seems to flow to that area better. And the other night, out the blue, my wife initiated sex and it all worked fine, couldn’t remember my heart racing or thinking about finishing quickly to it doesn’t fail. It just worked and it felt great. Hopefully I can keep that going