# Nothing to lose, only gain

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/nothing-to-lose-only-gain/7137>\
**Category:** 🙌 Success stories\
**Created:** [August 18, 2024, 4:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/nothing-to-lose-only-gain/7137 "2024-08-18T16:34:02Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
**Page:** 1

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![practical-blue-aardvark](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/practical-blue-aardvark/32/477537_2.png) [@practical-blue-aardvark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/practical-blue-aardvark)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 4:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/nothing-to-lose-only-gain/7137/1 "2024-08-18T16:34:02Z")

</div>

Damn, I’ve been through the gamut of sexual shame, body dysmorphia and anxiety. Been doing a lot of work to shatter the internal self-criticism. Now I can name issues without them defining me, like psychological limp dick.

It has taken me a decade from age 30 to 40 to realize that all the limp moments were mental, not merely a symptom of physically aging. In the face of high stakes situations, where I think I need to perform for partners, I get so in my head and spiral into awkwardness. I’ve even told partners I’m getting “camera shy”. Very telling about how I view sex. This always happen when it’s time to insert.

In the last couple of weeks, after 3 years of sporadic use of ED meds to mixed results, I’ve started seeking new methods of sexual health therapy and glad I found this app. I have been so focused on finding something to fix me vs discovering methods to grow me (no pun intended).

I am realizing that all my mental, emotional and physical well-being has been focused outside of the bedroom.

Now it’s time to focus on it in the bedroom.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![sweet-cyan-marlin](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/sweet-cyan-marlin/32/459499_2.png) [@sweet-cyan-marlin](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sweet-cyan-marlin)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 7:26pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/nothing-to-lose-only-gain/7137/2 "2024-08-18T19:26:11Z")

</div>

Happy to hear it!  
How long have you been on the app?

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![practical-blue-aardvark](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/practical-blue-aardvark/32/477537_2.png) [@practical-blue-aardvark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/practical-blue-aardvark)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 8:21pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/nothing-to-lose-only-gain/7137/3 "2024-08-18T20:21:59Z")

</div>

1st day 🙂

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![local-amaranth-meerkat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/local-amaranth-meerkat/32/469068_2.png) [@local-amaranth-meerkat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/local-amaranth-meerkat)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 1:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/nothing-to-lose-only-gain/7137/4 "2024-08-19T13:15:52Z")

</div>

Welcome!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![breezy-crimson-stoat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/breezy-crimson-stoat/32/405843_2.png) [@breezy-crimson-stoat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/breezy-crimson-stoat)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 1:33pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/nothing-to-lose-only-gain/7137/5 "2024-08-19T13:33:37Z")

</div>

It’s worked well for me… good luck Sir!