Self-compassion can help you from spiraling into negative self-talk. It’s like letting yourself be human instead of beating yourself up over being soft during this practice session.
Finish this sentence.
“One thing I like about myself today is…”
Self-compassion can help you from spiraling into negative self-talk. It’s like letting yourself be human instead of beating yourself up over being soft during this practice session.
Finish this sentence.
“One thing I like about myself today is…”
I am gaining sexual confidence
I am learning to be present
I am learning to be in the moment, noticing sensations in my skin and just know that pleasure isn’t a test but just for fun.
Its okay if i do not get hard immediately. I will learn to be more in the present rather than worrying about the past and catastrophizing about the future. Each moment is a different experience unto itself.
It’s ok that I’m not hard right now, I’m not a robot. I’m a human being
I am doing my best
It’s okay if my cock goes soft during sex
I don’t have to be erect at all times during sex
Being fully erect during sex isn’t actually necessary and doesn’t mean I’m a failure if I go soft
I did a little better this time
Im proud that im on this journey
I’m proud of myself that I’m trying to improve this part of my life
I’m proud of myself for putting in the effort to get hard
I‘m proud of myself for learning new sensations.
I’m proud of myself for taking action to better myself
I’m proud I’m taking these steps to fix myself
I am proud that I am on my way
It’s okay to not be hard all the time
Being not hard all the time is normal - no need for the pressure on myself