# Psychlogical dependend on Pills

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/psychlogical-dependend-on-pills/8038>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [November 11, 2024, 3:53am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/psychlogical-dependend-on-pills/8038 "2024-11-11T03:53:15Z")\
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**Author:** ![nice-gray-lemur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/57b2e6/32.png) [@nice-gray-lemur](https://community.mymojo.com/u/nice-gray-lemur)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2024, 3:53am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/psychlogical-dependend-on-pills/8038/1 "2024-11-11T03:53:15Z")

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So it all started with my (now ex) girlfriend. She was older than me and pretty hot. The first time we wanted to have sex i was super nervous, because i didn’t want to disappoint.

Result was that i went into fight or flight and couldn’t get it up. Never happened to me before and i didn’t even know this could happen. She was super understandable but it planted the first seed of doubt in my head.

Through our 2 year relationship this only happened once again because i was super stressed and only in my head.

After we broke up i havent dated for a long time. As i started again these two scenarios popped up in my mind and i never wanted it to happen again. I created this all in my head.

Someone gave me sildenafil just to try and i liked it. Been using it ever since then (maybe 1 1/2) years.

Problem is, i am constantly traveling around due to work etc. So i am only at one place for like a month or two.

Sometimes i am dating, but i never build a deeper connection with someone, so i dont feel real comfortable with them. This makes it hard for me to reduce the dosage.

Tried it before, but i thought so much about needing it that it didn’t work.

In general i am a very big overthinker and have anxiety etc. Now i have this problem too.

What would you do? Do you guys think a therapist would help? (Not directly a sex therapist)