# Reaching back out

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/reaching-back-out/6427>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [June 20, 2024, 8:21pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/reaching-back-out/6427 "2024-06-20T20:21:49Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![tall-emerald-wolverine](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/tall-emerald-wolverine/32/439697_2.png) [@tall-emerald-wolverine](https://community.mymojo.com/u/tall-emerald-wolverine)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2024, 8:21pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/reaching-back-out/6427/1 "2024-06-20T20:21:49Z")

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So I’m a 23 y/o guy, have been talking to this girl for a couple years and going on one off dates w her every once in a while that never got more serious bc I’m only around for like 2-3 months in the summer and work full time outside of that and she has like 3 jobs so we’re both busy and not in the same place much.  
A while back she texted me that she was housesitting alone and invited me over. We watched a movie, made out (which went really well) then my inner critic got to me and you can imagine the rest lmao  
Since then I reached out to her once asking if she wanted to come over and finish what we started and she had a birthday dinner or whatever and we had a kinda dry conversation that ended w her leaving me on opened (but she did send a snap where she defo made a point to get her tits in the shot and was propping them up w her arms). Then I hit her up again the next weekend to ask her to come over and I’ve been on delivered for like 2 weeks  
If she was a random hu I’d wave the white flag and move on but we had been friends for a while and she’s clearly been into me for multiple years. I wanna reach back out but idrk what to say. Was thinking ab asking her what the deal w her giving me the cold shoulder but we both kinda know…  
she also avoided me all lest summer despite flirting constantly and I think it was bc she put on a lot of weight. She’s slimmer now (and honestly looks way better than when I met her and she was super skinny) but I feel like I might’ve made her super insecure which may be why she’s not responding to me

I’m pretty confident I wanna reach out again and give it another go but have no idea how to approach this convo

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**Author:** ![sweet-black-dog](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/sweet-black-dog/32/398507_2.png) [@sweet-black-dog](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sweet-black-dog)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2024, 2:51am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/reaching-back-out/6427/2 "2024-06-21T02:51:09Z")

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Chat GPT is the answer, practice with it for different scenarios, and embrace the advantages of AI.

Maybe just say, I have something important to talk with you about? and say no more. Women are curious, so use that to get a date in person. After that, a direct approach into what happened could be ideal. Let her know it is not her fault and you are working on it.

Good luck.