I am in a relationship for almost 6 months. Its quite healthy and my gf has told me several times she is happy with our sex life. Even though I usually come fast (not always) I am able to make her come with my mouth
I am writing this post because we have had a conversation about a guy she used to date 2 years ago. She told me she was really into him but it didnt work out because he dumped her. I couldn’t resist and I checked her phone one night and I read their conversation. I could notice how bad she desired him and all the sexting they had (including pictures and videos). That made feel like shit from one hand because I start to compare myself. However, what is even weirder is that it also turned me on and I end up masturbating reading the chats. I dont know what to think about me….
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To be honest it’s more common than you think to be turned on reading or learning about your significant others sexual experiences. Jealousy and lust seem to go hand in hand. I can’t tell you why it’s like that but take some comfort in knowing it’s very normal to get turned on by it.
That would make alot of sense. I suffer from retroactive jealousy and when i tend to watch porn or become aroused while initiating sex i tend to get those retroactive jealousy triggers. Its so weird
I totally understand it. I can honestly say I have been cheated on and I’ve looked through messages and found pics and vids and I’ve wanked to it too. I’ve asked questions and asked for details and thought of those things while cumming. And it is frustrating but I still think of those things to this day. Just not as frequently or obsessively like I used to.