# Same old problem **URL:** \ **Category:** 🔥 Better sex\ **Created:** [May 9, 2024, 3:59am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/same-old-problem/5956 "2024-05-09T03:59:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![asleep-blush-wasp](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/asleep-blush-wasp/32/431850_2.png) [@asleep-blush-wasp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/asleep-blush-wasp)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2024, 3:59am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/same-old-problem/5956/1 "2024-05-09T03:59:14Z")
I’ve always had PE issues, 2-3 mins and I’m exploding. If I speed up and/or thrust hard, which is what my partner loves the most….well 30s at best. I hate it, but there it is. I’ve had times where I could last ten mins going steady and maybe 30-45s hard thrusting, but she likes it hard for a few mins and then a slow down. I just want to give her that….its frustrating as crap! I know she has had that from past partners. ---
**Author:** ![hadi-mojo](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/hadi-mojo/32/399592_2.png) [@hadi-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/hadi-mojo)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2024, 9:18pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/same-old-problem/5956/2 "2024-05-09T21:18:26Z")
I know that it’s frustrating, but just remember it’s something you can change if you work on it – just give yourself some time and maybe a little bit of compassion! ---
**Author:** ![scientific-white-otter](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/scientific-white-otter/32/432506_2.png) [@scientific-white-otter](https://community.mymojo.com/u/scientific-white-otter)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2024, 2:17pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/same-old-problem/5956/3 "2024-05-11T14:17:45Z")
I always found edging, breathing and penis muscle flexing helped me control how long I could have sex for, hope this helps đź‘Ť