# Should I be open or wait things out

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/should-i-be-open-or-wait-things-out/2489>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [September 12, 2021, 12:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/should-i-be-open-or-wait-things-out/2489 "2021-09-12T12:34:05Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![lexical-fuchsia-dragonfly](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/lexical-fuchsia-dragonfly/32/233240_2.png) [@lexical-fuchsia-dragonfly](https://community.mymojo.com/u/lexical-fuchsia-dragonfly)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2021, 12:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/should-i-be-open-or-wait-things-out/2489/1 "2021-09-12T12:34:05Z")

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I have been seeing this girl for a little while and everything is great except when we go to the bedroom. Last month we had a staycation and tried to have sex multiple times but I just couldn’t get it up. She seemed slightly annoyed but was overall supportive about it.

We have another weekend trip coming up this week and I fear the same thing happening leading to awkwardness and the end of the relationship. Everytime I try to think of the fun we’ll have on the trip those thoughts cloud it.

Should I let her know I have fear about the situation happening again? And want to work through the problem together with her to overcome it (whether it be physical or mental). Or should I take my chances and see how the weekend plays out and stop overthinking?

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**Author:** ![major-peach-manatee](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/major-peach-manatee/32/248446_2.png) [@major-peach-manatee](https://community.mymojo.com/u/major-peach-manatee)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2021, 7:48pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/should-i-be-open-or-wait-things-out/2489/2 "2021-09-12T19:48:17Z")

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Have you had issues getting it up in the past or is this about her?

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**Author:** ![given-gold-cougar](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/given-gold-cougar/32/296621_2.png) [@given-gold-cougar](https://community.mymojo.com/u/given-gold-cougar)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2021, 12:16am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/should-i-be-open-or-wait-things-out/2489/3 "2021-09-13T00:16:36Z")

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I’d open up about it, and you may find that that releases a ton of pressure and then things work. Has happened that way for me before.